4. ?Baebol i talem se fasin jalus i olsem wanem?

⁴ Long ol fastok we Pol i raetem long ol Kristin long Korin blong tokbaot lav, hem i talem se: “Man we i stap lavem man, . . . hem i no save jalus.” (1 Korin 13:4) Man i save jalus long ol narafala man from we oli rij no oli gat plante samting. Fasin jalus ya i save spolem man long saed blong bodi, long saed blong filing, mo long saed blong spirit.​—Proveb 14:30; Rom 13:13; Jemes 3:​14-​16.

5. ?Olsem wanem lav i save halpem yumi blong no jalus taem ol elda oli no givim sam tiokratik wok long yumi?

⁵ Taem yumi tingbaot samting ya, maet i gud blong askem yumi wan se, ‘?Mi mi jalus taem ol elda oli givim tiokratik wok long narafala, be oli no givim long mi?’ Sipos yes, yu no mas harem nogud. Man ya blong raetem Baebol, Jemes, i talem bakegen long yumi se ‘fasin blong wantem samting blong narafala’ i stap long tingting blong olgeta sinman. (Jemes 4:5) Lav we yu gat long brata blong yu i save givhan long yu blong gat stret tingting bakegen. Lav ya i save givhan long yumi blong haremgud wetem wan man we i stap haremgud long wan blesing we hem i kasem no taem narafala i talem ol gudfala tok blong presem hem.​—Skelem wetem 1 Samuel 18:​7-9.

6. ?Wanem bigfala problem we i stap long kongregesen blong Korin long faswan handred yia?

⁶ Pol i gohed i se, man we i gat lav, hem i “no save mekem tingting blong hem i go antap, mo i no save flas.” (1 Korin 13:4) Sipos yumi gat bigfala save no waes blong mekem sam kaen wok, yumi no mas flas from samting ya. I klia se hemia wan problem we i stap long kongregesen blong Korin. Samfala man we oli kam insaed long Kristin kongregesen, oli wantem tumas blong kasem hae posisen. Maet ol man ya oli gat bigfala save blong eksplenem sam tijing no maet oli nafgud blong mekem sam wok. Ale, oli stap pulum ol man blong leftemap olgeta. Mo fasin ya i mekem se kongregesen i seraot bigwan. (1 Korin 3:​3, 4; 2 Korin 12:20) Trabol ya i kam moa nogud mekem se biaen, Pol i mas stretem ol Kristin long Korin from we oli “letem ol krangke man oli gohed.” Pol i tok agensem ol man ya, i se oli ‘ol giaman aposol.’​—2 Korin 11:​5, 19, 20.

7, 8. Soem long Baebol olsem wanem yumi save yusum save mo waes blong yumi blong leftemap fasin joen gud.

⁷ Sem samting olsem i save hapen tede. Eksampel, samfala, maet oli gat fasin blong tok flas from samting we oli mekem long wok blong prij no from ol wok we oli stap mekem long ogenaesesen blong God. Sipos yumi gat save no waes blong mekem wan spesel wok, we ol narafala oli no save mekem, ?yu ting se i stret blong flas from samting ya? No, i no stret. Yumi mas yusum spesel save we yumi gat blong leftemap fasin joen gud​—i no blong leftemap yumi wan.​—Matiu 23:12; 1 Pita 5:6.

⁸ Pol i raetem se, nomata we kongregesen i gat plante memba blong hem, be ‘God i stap joenem olgeta memba ya blong oli kam olsem wan bodi.’ (1 Korin 12:​19-​26) Grik tok we oli tanem i kam “joenem” i minim se meksemap gud, olsem we man i meksemap ol defdefren kala. Taswe, i no mas gat wan long kongregesen we i leftemap hem wan from save blong hem mo i traem blong bos long ol narafala. Man we i praod mo i wantem kasem haenem, hem i no gat ples insaed long ogenaesesen blong God.​—Proveb 16:19; 1 Korin 14:12; 1 Pita 5:​2, 3.

11. (a) ?Long wanem rod yumi save soem lav long fasin we i kaen mo i stret? (b) ?Olsem wanem yumi save soem se yumi no glad long ol fasin we oli no stret?

¹¹ Pol i raetem tu se, man we i gat lav, hem i ‘kaen gud’ mo “i no save jikim man.” (1 Korin 13:​4, 5) Yes, lav bambae i givhan long yumi blong no mekem raf fasin, talem ol doti tok, mo mekem ol fasin we oli no soem respek. Defren olgeta, lav bambae i givhan long yumi blong tingbaot filing blong narafala. Eksampel, man we i gat lav, bambae hem i traehad blong no mekem wan samting we i save mekem tingting blong narafala i trabol. (Skelem wetem 1 Korin 8:​13.) Man olsem ‘i no save glad taem i luk we wan narafala i mekem i no stret, hem i save glad long ol trutok nomo.’ (1 Korin 13:6) Sipos yumi lavem ol loa blong Jeova, bambae yumi no ting nating long ol nogud fasin long saed blong seks, mo bambae yumi no save glad long ol samting we God i agensem. (Ol Sam 119:97) Lav bambae i halpem yumi blong glad long ol samting we oli bildimap ol narafala, be i no ol samting blong brekem daon olgeta.​—Rom 15:2; 1 Korin 10:23, 24; 14:26.

16. ?Wetaem lav i save halpem yumi blong gat longfala tingting?

¹⁶ Pol i talem long yumi se “man we i stap lavem man, tingting blong hem i longfala.” (1 Korin 13:4) Lav i mekem se yumi naf blong fesem ol hadtaem, nating se yumi mas fesem ol hadtaem ya blong plante yia. Eksampel, sam Kristin oli stap plante yia finis long wan famle we i seraot long ol defren bilif. Samfala oli no mared, i no from we oli wantem stap olsem nomo, be from we oli no faenem wan stret man no woman “blong Masta blong yumi.” (1 Korin 7:​39; 2 Korin 6:​14) Samfala bakegen, oli mas faet agensem ol problem long saed blong helt. (Galesia 4:​13, 14; Filipae 2:​25-​30) Yes, long olfala wol ya, yumi evriwan i nidim fasin blong stanap strong longtaem.​—Matiu 10:22; Jemes 1:​12.