9. ?Wanem ol eksampel long Baebol long saed blong samfala we oli lukaot prapa intres blong olgeta?

⁹ Man we i gat lav, hem i “no save tingbaot hem nomo.” (1 Korin 13:5) Man olsem i no save trikim narafala blong kasem samting we hem nomo i wantem. Baebol i givim sam eksampel we oli olsem woning long saed ya. Yumi save luk ol eksampel ya long stori blong Delila, Jesebel, mo Atalia. Wanwan long trifala woman ya i trikim narafala blong kasem samting we trifala nomo i wantem. (Jajes 16:16; 1 King 21:25; 2 Kronikel 22:10-​12) Absalom, boe blong King Deved, hem tu i mekem olsem. Hem i go mo i toktok wetem olgeta we oli stap kam long doa blong bigfala stonwol blong king i stretem problem blong olgeta. Hem i giaman long olgeta se king i no rili intres long olgeta. !Ale, hem i talem stret long olgeta se, wanem we kot i rili nidim, hemia wan man we i gat lav olsem hem! (2 Samuel 15:​2-4) Yes, Absalom i no rili intres long ol man we narafala i spolem olgeta, no gat. Hem i intres nomo long hem wan. Hem wan i putumap hem olsem king. Mo hem i winim plante man, oli kam aninit long rul blong hem. Be biaen, ol enemi oli winim Absalom long faet. Oli kilim hem i ded, mo oli no berem hem long wan gudfala beregraon.​—2 Samuel 18:​6-​17.

10. ?Olsem wanem blong soem se yumi tingbaot intres blong ol narafala?

¹⁰ Stori ya i wan woning long ol Kristin tede. Nomata we yumi man no woman, maet yumi gat fasin ya blong traem pulum narafala blong folem tingting blong yumi. Maet i isi long yumi blong winim narafala, mo bos long wan storeyan, no daonem olgeta we oli gat defren tingting. Be sipos yumi rili gat lav, bambae yumi tingbaot samting we narafala i intres long hem. (Filipae 2:​2-4) Bambae yumi no fosem narafala mo pulum olgeta blong folem prapa tingting blong yumi, jes from we yumi gat moa ekspiryens no from posisen blong yumi long ogenaesesen blong God, mo from we yumi ting se tingting blong yumi nomo i beswan. Long defren fasin, bambae yumi tingbaot waes tok ya blong Baebol se: “Man we i praod bambae i kasem trabol we i spolemgud hem, mo man we i flas tumas, bambae i foldaon we i foldaon olgeta.”​—Proveb 16:18.

11. (a) ?Long wanem rod yumi save soem lav long fasin we i kaen mo i stret? (b) ?Olsem wanem yumi save soem se yumi no glad long ol fasin we oli no stret?

¹¹ Pol i raetem tu se, man we i gat lav, hem i ‘kaen gud’ mo “i no save jikim man.” (1 Korin 13:​4, 5) Yes, lav bambae i givhan long yumi blong no mekem raf fasin, talem ol doti tok, mo mekem ol fasin we oli no soem respek. Defren olgeta, lav bambae i givhan long yumi blong tingbaot filing blong narafala. Eksampel, man we i gat lav, bambae hem i traehad blong no mekem wan samting we i save mekem tingting blong narafala i trabol. (Skelem wetem 1 Korin 8:​13.) Man olsem ‘i no save glad taem i luk we wan narafala i mekem i no stret, hem i save glad long ol trutok nomo.’ (1 Korin 13:6) Sipos yumi lavem ol loa blong Jeova, bambae yumi no ting nating long ol nogud fasin long saed blong seks, mo bambae yumi no save glad long ol samting we God i agensem. (Ol Sam 119:97) Lav bambae i halpem yumi blong glad long ol samting we oli bildimap ol narafala, be i no ol samting blong brekem daon olgeta.​—Rom 15:2; 1 Korin 10:23, 24; 14:26.

12, 13. (a) ?Yumi mas mekem wanem taem narafala i mekem i no stret long yumi? (b) Talem sam eksampel long Baebol blong soem se fasin kros we yumi ting se i stret i save lidim yumi blong mekem ol krangke fasin.

¹² Pol i raetem se, man we gat lav, “hem i no save kros kwik” (“hem i no save harem nogud kwiktaem,” Phillips). (1 Korin 13:5) I tru, samtaem yumi ol sinman, yumi harem nogud mo kam kros taem narafala i mekem i no stret long yumi. Nating se i olsem, i rong blong holem wan nogud tingting long saed blong narafala no blong stap kros longtaem. (Ol Sam 4:4; Efesas 4:​26) Sipos yumi no lukaot gud, maet fasin kros we yumi ting se i stret, i save lidim yumi blong mekem wan krangke samting, nao yumi gat kaon long fored blong Jeova.​—Jenesis 34:​1-​31; 49:​5-7; Namba 12:3; 20:10-​12; Ol Sam 106:32, 33.

¹³ Samfala oli letem ol slak fasin blong narafala i mekem se oli no moa go long ol Kristin miting, no blong joen long wok blong prij. Plante long olgeta ya, oli bin mekem wan strongfala faet blong holem bilif blong olgeta. Maet famle i agensem olgeta, ol fren long ples blong wok i jikim olgeta, mo ol narafala traem olsem. Oli winim ol traem ya, from we oli tingbaot ol hadtaem ya olsem rod blong traem bilif blong olgeta, mo i stret blong tingting olsem. ?Be olsem wanem sipos wan Kristin i talem no i mekem wan samting we i no soem lav nating? ?Samting ya i no traem bilif blong yumi? Si, hem i traem bilif blong yumi, from we sipos yumi stap kros longtaem, yumi save “givim jans long Setan.”​—Efesas 4:​27.

14, 15. (a) ?I nidim wanem blong no stap “kros longtaem”? (b) ?Olsem wanem yumi save folem eksampel blong Jeova long saed blong fasin fogif?

¹⁴ I stret nomo we Pol i gohed, i talem se man we i gat lav, hem i “no save stap kros longtaem.” (1 Korin 13:5) Long vas ya, Pol i yusum wan tok we i laenap wetem man we i stap makem daon ol kaon blong narafala long buk. I klia se man ya we Pol i stap tokbaot, hem i stap makem daon ol nogud fasin we narafala i bin mekem long hem, olsem nao bambae hem i no fogetem. ?Olsem wanem sipos wan man i talem wan tok no i mekem wan samting we i stikim yumi? ?Bambae yumi makem daon ol samting ya long tingting blong yumi, blong biaen, yumi save yusum bakegen agensem man ya? Sipos yumi gat lav, bambae yumi no mekem olsem. !Yumi glad tumas se Jeova i gat sore long yumi! !Hem i no stap makemdaon evri smosmol mastik blong yumi! (Ol Sam 130:3) Yes, taem yumi tanem tingting from nogud fasin we yumi mekem, hem i tekemaot ol sin blong yumi.​—Ol Wok 3:​19.

¹⁵ Yumi save folem eksampel blong Jeova long saed ya. Yumi no mas kwik blong harem nogud taem narafala i mekem i no stret long yumi. Sipos yumi kwik blong harem nogud, yumi stap spolem yumi moa i bitim we yumi stap spolem man ya we i mekem i no stret long yumi. (Prija 7:​9, 22) Long defren fasin, yumi mas tingbaot se man we i gat lav, “hem i stap bilif strong long God, mo i stap putum tingting blong hem i strong long hem.” (1 Korin 13:7) I tru, yumi no wantem kam olsem man we narafala i save trikim hem isi nomo. Be i no stret tu blong ting se ol nogud tingting oli pusum ol brata blong yumi blong spolem yumi. Oltaem, i gud blong tingbaot olgeta se oli gat stret tingting.​—Kolosi 3:​13.