31 Then David said to Joʹab and all the people that were with him: “Rip YOUR garments apart+ and tie on sackcloth+ and wail before Abʹner.” Even King David was walking behind the couch.

19 Then Taʹmar placed ashes+ upon her head, and the striped robe that was upon her she ripped apart; and she kept her hands* put upon her head+ and went walking away, crying out as she walked.