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Would You Like a Life Free from Problems?Awake!—1976 | October 8
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Would You Like a Life Free from Problems?
DO YOU at times feel that the problems of daily living are almost too much for you? Would you like to be free from these problems so that you could really enjoy life?
Think what it would be like if your life were like this: You wake up in the morning and know that you are going to have a totally delightful day ahead of you. You have no money problems, no taxes, mortgages or rent. Instead, you have complete economic security.
And when you get to your mirror to wash, you see that your face has a clear complexion, no blemishes, no wrinkles of old age, no bags under the eyes. Your face radiates perfect health, and is topped by a beautiful head of hair.
Just think how it would be also if you knew that you would not need health insurance anymore, because you and your family would never get sick again. And that there would be no more news reports of cancer, heart disease, or any other illness, because all of them had been conquered—forever. How grand that would be!
Then, too, think what it would mean if you were able to walk out the door and know that you could take the lock off, because all crime had been eliminated. Yes, to know that there were no jails, no police forces, no armies, no weapons of destruction anywhere in the world because they were not needed!
Suppose that you also could look forward to the day because you were deeply satisfied with the kind of work you were doing, finding real joy in it. And you very much enjoyed all your neighbors, as they were very pleasant, kind, helpful and completely without prejudice. And best of all, you truly enjoyed your family life because it was so harmonious, with all members showing deep love and respect for one another.
Would you like a day like that? “Well,” you might be saying, “of course I would! Who wouldn’t? But all that is just wishful thinking, a dream world. Nobody could have a trouble-free life like that.”
Well, then, what are we talking about? Have we described some kind of life in heaven? No, nor do we mean life on another planet somewhere else in the universe. Neither are we engaging in some kind of mental exercise, daydreaming. We are talking about the time that is coming when every day of life, right here on earth, will be a genuine delight; when distressing problems will disappear instead of robbing us of our joy; when life’s challenges will be stimulating, interesting, producing the deep contentment that comes with doing things that are really worth while.
Can such a thing happen? Yes, it can! Indeed, all decent people want it to happen, because we were made to desire such a fine life. But will it happen? Yes, it will! Such a delightful condition, free from today’s agonizing troubles, will come to pass for a certainty. Nothing in heaven or on earth can stop it.
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Are the Problems Being Solved?Awake!—1976 | October 8
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Are the Problems Being Solved?
A LIFE free from all of today’s agonizing problems? How can this be? When we look out at the world, we see problems growing.
For instance, in nearly every country on earth there are very serious and persistent economic problems. Millions have trouble finding suitable work. Debts are at an all-time high. Fathers worry about supporting their families. Mothers see prices going up all the time and are frustrated when trying to make ends meet. Half of the old folks in many so-called prosperous nations live in poverty. Hunger and illiteracy increase in poorer lands.
Yet, the world’s wisest economists cannot invent an economic system that assures lasting prosperity for all. They can only try to patch up this tottering system for a while, but then it breaks down again.
Family Life Breaking Down
Family life, too, is breaking down all over the world, not improving. Country after country sees a new peak in divorces.
In a marital situation that has become quite common, one woman wrote: “I’m very unhappy. My husband gets upset over practically nothing. We have one married son, but he comes home only for short visits and hardly tolerates me. We have few friends. Now, with the years passing, I find myself more and more isolated. I feel all alone in the world. What can I do to make life worth living?” Ever so many people feel just that way.
Parents today have added worries. Their children face problems no other generation of young people ever had. These young people see the ‘jungle’ that the world has become, and many are disgusted with it and afraid. As one student leader said in his graduation speech: “Today as we leave school a sense of frustration and despair overwhelms us.”
Where can parents turn for dependable help? Listen to this editorial in the New York Times. It said: ‘For a century or more parents have been bombarded with advice about family life. Doctors, nurses, teachers and theologians have given their advice, and in recent decades they have been joined by psychologists and psychoanalysts. But were we to collect all this good advice and inspect it, what would we find? Little more, I’m afraid, than a jumbled, noisy mass of contradiction. Pity, therefore, the poor parent. The more conscientious he or she is in seeking advice, the more confused he is likely to become.’
Problems with Science
At one time it was thought that science would help to lead the way to that better world and solve many of mankind’s distressing problems. But now scientists themselves admit that science often causes as many problems as it solves, if not more.
An example of the disappointment in science can be noted when we read the July 1899 issue of Scientific American. Away back then, this scientific publication predicted that the automobile ‘would have a fine influence on city life.’ It spoke of ‘light rubber-tired vehicles moving swiftly and noiselessly over clean, dustless and odorless streets, eliminating much of the nervousness, distraction and strain of modern city life.’
In the light of actual experience, that prediction is laughable today, is it not? Just the exact opposite has come to pass. In addition, around the world tens of thousands of people are killed and millions are injured every year by automobiles.
Even the inventors of machines have expressed dismay at the dashing of their dreams for a better world. In 1942, during World War II, Orville Wright, who with his brother Wilbur developed the airplane, wrote this to Henry Ford, Senior, developer of the mass-produced automobile: ‘Wilbur and I thought the airplane would hasten world peace. It seems to have done the opposite. I suspect that when you introduced mass-production—one of the great inventions of the ages—you little thought it would be used in building tanks for world destruction. It seems that no beneficial thing can be introduced without someone finding a vicious use for it.’
This same frustration is being felt in the medical field. At one time there were high hopes that modern medicine would conquer sickness and help to lead to a better world. But sickness has not been conquered. In fact, some of the worst ailments such as cancer and heart disease are making the biggest increases. Even some of the efforts at cures are backfiring. In the United States, about 30,000 people a year are said to die as the direct result of drugs prescribed by their doctors, with ten times as many suffering bad reactions.
No Peace
What about a world of total peace, with no locks, jails, police forces, armies or weapons of destruction? Why, the world is farther away from that than ever. Crime skyrockets; the nations now spend about 300 billion dollars a year on weapons; there is one war after another. Human leaders certainly are not bringing permanent world peace.
In the late 1800’s and early 1900’s, most leaders were predicting a grand new era of peace and prosperity. An encyclopedia comments: “Before 1914, even the theologians believed, as did all the cultivated and educated people, that the world was on its way toward a better future. To the best ones of the old generation, 1914 meant a shock they never got over.” In 1914 the world was engulfed in the most horrible war to that time, contrary to all the ‘rosy’ predictions. And World War II was even worse, taking an estimated 55 million lives!
Also, in recent years especially, people have seen corruption both in government and in business. As a result, polls show that confidence in human institutions is at an all-time low.
What is frustrating is that so many of these problems that affect people are beyond their control. Because of this, emotional instability grows. Why, in the United States alone last year about 57 million prescriptions—involving billions of pills—were filled for just one type of drug—a tranquilizer.
So, after all this time, we can be sure of one thing: humans, on their own, can never bring about the kind of life we want, the kind of life we described at the outset. It is little wonder, therefore, that we read this in the Bible, at Psalm 146, verse 3: “Do not put your trust in nobles, nor in the son of earthling man, to whom no salvation belongs.”
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Can We Trust God to Help?Awake!—1976 | October 8
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Can We Trust God to Help?
YET, if we cannot trust humans, even world leaders, to bring about the kind of life we want, then whom can we trust? God? Do you believe he can help us with our problems now, and bring the human family into the kind of life we want?
Really, the question is this: who knows better how to help man out of his problems? The choice is between imperfect man and his all-powerful, all-wise Maker. So, which one knows best how man’s mind, emotions and body work? Surely, the Creator, who made us, knows far better than we do how to help us out of all these staggering problems.
God’s Promises
That’s why the Bible, at Psalm 37, verses 3, 4, says: “Trust in Jehovah . . . and he will give you the requests of your heart.” God promises us not only help with our problems now, but something even more wonderful. He promises a solution in the future to all mankind’s nagging problems. He promises that the time is coming when people will live forever—in complete happiness.
The very name that the Creator has taken to himself helps us to have added confidence in his promises. That name is Jehovah. It means ‘He causes to become.’ That is, he’s the fulfiller of promises. He causes his purposes to come to realization, right on time, without fail.
Notice the assurance Jehovah’s Word gives us as to his purpose for our earth. For example, Psalm 37, verses 9 to 11, says: “For evildoers themselves will be cut off, but those hoping in Jehovah are the ones that will possess the earth. And just a little while longer, and the wicked one will be no more . . . But the meek ones themselves will possess the earth, and they will indeed find their exquisite delight in the abundance of peace.”
For how long? Ps 37 Verse 29 answers: “The righteous themselves will possess the earth, and they will reside forever upon it.” Jesus Christ showed that this psalm will have a future fulfillment, quoting from it, and saying: “Happy are the mild-tempered ones, since they will inherit the earth.”—Matt. 5:5.
When was the last time you found “exquisite delight” in anything for a period of time? A rare occasion, is it not? But to those who serve him, Jehovah promises the kind of life where every day will be a delight, forever, without today’s depressing problems.
Why So Much Misery?
Yet, since this is God’s purpose, why has he not done it already? Why has the history of the human family been filled with such misery?
Because, in the first place, when God created the parents of the human family, Adam and Eve, he told them that their continued life and happiness depended on their serving Him. But they thought that they could do better by serving themselves. They decided to judge for themselves what was right and what was wrong. And since God created them with the capacity for free choice, he let them have what they wanted—but only for a certain period of time.
What has happened since then has proved once and for all that God was right, that man cannot be independent of his Maker and be truly happy. What Psalm 127:1 says has proved to be the truth: “Unless Jehovah himself builds the house, it is to no avail that its builders have worked hard on it.”
But now God’s time for permitting man’s foolishness has drawn near its end. All the evidence in fulfillment of Bible prophecy shows that soon God will put a stop to this experiment in man-rule. Indeed, we are very deep into the foretold “last days” mentioned at Second Timothy chapter 3, and at Matthew chapter 24, where Jesus himself foretold the ‘time of the end’ that we are in right now.
So without a doubt, man’s past record proves conclusively that he was not created with the ability, or right, to design on his own a better world, one free from hurtful problems. Only God can do that. And his Word clearly shows that he will do this, not by reforming the present system of things, but by taking it out of the way. He will annihilate it. Why? Because it is beyond reform. Instead, Jehovah has purposed to create an entirely new society made up of righteous humans.
Demonstrating the Reality
Furthermore, to give us added confidence in these promises, God is already demonstrating the reality of that better way of life to come. Where? In the lives of millions of people all over the world.
Who are these people? The Bible identifies them at Isaiah 43:10-12 as God’s dedicated servants, Jehovah’s Witnesses. They are getting the very best counsel on handling today’s problems, because that counsel comes from the very best source—from the mind of man’s Creator, Jehovah God. And it touches every aspect of daily living. It deals with the best way to handle marriage problems, the best way to bring up children, the best way to get along with friends, neighbors, relatives, employers, employees, and, even more important, the best way to come into harmony with Jehovah himself.
Where can this superior counsel of God be found? In the Bible, for Second Timothy 3:16 and 17 says: “All Scripture is inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight, for disciplining in righteousness, that the man of God may be fully competent.”
Yes, God’s powerful force, his holy spirit, inspired the Bible. After all, since God created the awesome universe, could he not be the author of a book? He is. By means of his active force or spirit he directed his servants to write the Bible as a guide for us. And that same spirit helps his true servants to understand it correctly. In this way we learn how best to cope with our problems today, and how we can survive these problem-filled “last days” into God’s new order.
So right now Jehovah is instructing his servants, preparing them for life in his new order. Isaiah chapter 2, verses 2 to 4, foretold this, saying: “And it must occur in the final part of the days”—(that is, right now, in these “last days,”)—“And it must occur in the final part of the days that the mountain of the house of Jehovah will become firmly established above the top of the mountains.”
God is here saying that in our time his pure worship would be lifted up like a signal so that sincere persons could turn to it. The prophecy continues: “And many peoples will certainly go and say: ‘Come, you people, and let us go up to the mountain of Jehovah. . . . And he will instruct us about his ways.’”
But, do God’s ways really work to solve big problems as well as little ones, especially in this modern age? Can they solve your problems?
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Do God’s Ways Really Work?Awake!—1976 | October 8
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Do God’s Ways Really Work?
DO GOD’S ways really work? Can they provide practical solutions to everyday problems now, as well as in the future? Well, let us put them to the test. Let us examine a few areas of life and see if they really work where other methods fail.
For example, let us take one of the big problems of life, a global one, and see if Jehovah’s way works best. It is noted at Isaiah chapter 2, verse 4, in prophetic words as regards our time: “And he will certainly render judgment among the nations and set matters straight respecting many peoples. And they will have to beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning shears. Nation will not lift up sword against nation, neither will they learn war anymore.”
Fulfillment Now
Is this really being fulfilled right now? The evidence shows that it certainly is. No, not among the members of the United Nations; that’s obvious. They have been warring among themselves since the very start of that organization.
That prophecy is not being fulfilled upon the religions of this world, either. They have also warred among themselves, for centuries. Regarding this, note what a New York Times editorial writer said earlier this year, in an article he entitled “Death in the Name of God.” He observed: ‘It is a dismal truth that probably half or more of the wars now being fought around the world are either openly religious conflicts or involved with religious disputes. And, since virtually all religions believe in one God, this means that at this very instant men are killing each other in the name of God.’
Well, then, upon whom is Isaiah’s prophecy being fulfilled? Upon God’s servants—his Witnesses. God’s purpose to unite people into a peaceful, loving human society world wide is moving ahead irresistibly right now. He is already collecting sincere people out of all nations, bringing them together into one global family, teaching them the ways of total, permanent peace.
Yes, right now, in the midst of an era that has been ripped apart by the most horrible wars in history, Jehovah’s servants in over 200 lands are living proof that there can be—and is now—a peaceable society of people. In this regard, Jehovah’s servants are accomplishing what the most powerful politicians, the strongest nations and leagues of nations, and worldly religions, have never accomplished: and that is to end war permanently among people of all races and nationalities. As a result, these servants of Jehovah do not participate in any of the wars of the nations.
How Possible?
How has this been possible for God’s servants? Is it because they are so intelligent?
No, they are just ordinary people, imperfect, limited, like anybody else. But it is possible because Jehovah’s Witnesses have agreed to serve God, to do what he says. So when God says, at Acts 17:26, that all men are brothers, they believe it. When he says, at Acts 10:34, that he is not partial, then they cannot be, either.
Also, when he tells them through his Son, at John 13:35, that “by this all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love among yourselves,” then they work to cultivate that love. When he tells them to lay down their war weapons, they do that, too.
When God’s servants do things his way, he favors them with success in their efforts to be at peace with one another, even as Psalm 29:11 says: “Jehovah himself will bless his people with peace.” And, as Isaiah 2:4 foretold: “Neither will they learn war anymore.” So God’s servants today do not war among themselves, or with anyone else. They never have, and never will! Thus, they have already been prepared by God to step into his new order and start off that new human society with a totally peaceful order of things—from the very first day!
Other people notice this peace, harmony and love. An observer who attended an assembly of Jehovah’s Witnesses for the first time last summer remarked: “I have never seen anything like this before in all my life. I have never seen so much love between peoples of all nations and races together at one time.”
Yet, it is true that there are still awful wars among those who are not God’s true servants. And this certainly does affect our happiness. But that part of the problem God himself will solve by crushing the warring nations out of existence soon, as well as their fiendish weapons of destruction. Psalm 46, verses 8 and 9, says: “Come, you people, behold the activities of Jehovah, how he has set astonishing events on the earth. He is making wars to cease to the extremity of the earth. The bow he breaks apart and does cut the spear in pieces; the [war] wagons he burns in the fire.”
Ending Crime
Another evidence that serving God can solve big problems has to do with the staggering increase of crime nearly everywhere. This is a problem that the authorities are unable to solve.
But God can. And he is doing it! Where? Again, among those who serve him and learn his ways. It has been observed that among Jehovah’s Witnesses crime is practically nonexistent. Why? Because serving God means obeying his laws and principles. These laws forbid such things as stealing, dishonesty, murder, violence, sexual crimes and others.
On those rare occasions that one of God’s servants does commit a serious offense, the judicial arrangement among the 39,600 congregations world wide takes care of the matter by applying the proper Scriptural sanctions. That is why it has been truthfully said that Jehovah’s Witnesses throughout the world enjoy the most crime-free society of people anywhere. And again, they do not take credit for this, because it comes from doing things Jehovah’s way.
At a recent assembly of Jehovah’s Witnesses in Montana, a motel manager said: “If all people were like Jehovah’s Witnesses we wouldn’t need policemen!” A police officer at Cleveland’s Municipal Stadium declared: “We wish that all of the assemblies here were like yours. We haven’t had any problems with unruliness.”
Still, the skyrocketing crime elsewhere does affect even those who serve God. But here too, as with war, only God himself can and will solve this problem entirely. This he will do when he brings the present wicked system of things to its end. Proverbs chapter 2, verses 21 and 22, says: “For the upright are the ones that will reside in the earth, and the blameless are the ones that will be left over in it. As regards the wicked, they will be cut off from the very earth; and as for the treacherous, they will be torn away from it.”
At the same time, however, Bible principles help protect us better from crime, even now. For instance, the evidence reveals that most murders are committed among people who know each other—family members, friends, neighbors. Often it is the lack of self-control on the part of the victim that leads to provoking the killer. But Christians trained in Bible principles know that they should not pay back evil for evil; they know that a mild answer often turns away someone else’s anger; and they know that to be a servant of God they have to work to develop a mild temper. So a person who lives by such Bible principles is far less likely to provoke someone into doing him bodily harm.
Stamping Out V.D.
Another problem, a big one, that serving God helps his people to avoid has to do with the epidemic of venereal disease that is spreading like wildfire in nearly every country. Medical authorities admit that they are powerless to stop it.
Why? Because the world ignores God’s laws forbidding adultery, fornication and homosexuality; and that is how venereal disease is spread. But these laws are enforced among God’s servants; so his people are kept clean. They learn to limit their sexual relations to where they belong, and God tells us that this is only in the marriage arrangement.
Think of the problems—the awful diseases, unwanted pregnancies, arguments, broken homes, heartaches—that God’s servants avoid completely by doing things His way in this matter!
Another huge problem has to do with family life. Can serving God really help here?
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Improving Family LifeAwake!—1976 | October 8
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Improving Family Life
BIBLE prophecy shows that these “last days” would be characterized by a breakdown in family ties.—Rom. 1:29-31; 2 Tim. 3:1-4.
But God created the family as the basic unit of human society, and that has not changed. So he shows his servants how to strengthen families although the world is experiencing family breakdowns. He shows us how to become better husbands and fathers, better wives and mothers, better sons and daughters, better brothers and sisters. Not perfect—but better.
Practical Counsel for Husbands
Among the many fine Bible principles that help us with the problems of married life, perhaps we could comment on just a few. One is found at Ephesians 5:28. There God counsels the family head: “Husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies.”
Now, combine that with another principle at First Peter, chapter 3, verse 7, which shows that a husband who serves God must consider his wife’s physical and emotional makeup, and, as it says, must ‘assign her honor’ yes, “honor,” ‘as to a weaker vessel, the feminine one.’
If you really love your wife as your own body, and honor her, that is, really show her respect, how will you deal with her? Surely you will try to please her wherever possible. You will be unselfish, even giving her first choice most of the time. Certainly you will not shout at her if you highly honor her, nor will you belittle her.
Well, the Bible shows that this is the kind of love and consideration that has to be cultivated by a husband who is a servant of God. Cultivated? Yes, it takes work, practice, because these are not qualities that come naturally to imperfect people, but they need to be developed.
When one woman was asked what quality she appreciated most in her husband, she replied: “His tenderness toward me.” Contrary to what many men of this world may think, decent women do not appreciate men who boss them around, who dominate them, or treat them unkindly.
Also, when a husband cultivates and exercises godly qualities in dealing with his wife, he finds that God has so constructed the wife mentally and emotionally that she, in turn, usually responds to such considerate treatment. She will likely become a better wife.
No, the husband is not to abdicate his position as family head. He still has the God-given responsibility to take the lead, to make final decisions. But there are things in the marriage relationship where he must take into consideration his wife’s viewpoints, attitudes, desires and makeup, because that is what God tells his servants to do.
This way of dealing with a wife does produce a happy marriage. Countless husbands who are God’s servants can testify to this. As an example is a man whose first marriage failed and ended in divorce. Then he began studying Bible principles and accepted God’s ways for marriage. Later he wrote this: “In the past, I lacked respect for women. By the way I lived, I brought much unhappiness to myself and others, especially to my first wife. After starting to live by the Bible, I could see that applying its principles was the best way to live. By treating my second wife in a Christian way, loving her as I do myself, I have found real happiness in marriage. Our marriage of ten years has been comparatively without problems. When consulted by others about marriage problems, I direct them to what the Bible says. I know from personal experience that applying its counsel really works. On the other hand, those who disregard it, knowingly or unknowingly, experience much unhappiness and heartache.”
Practical Counsel for Wives
The Bible also has fine, practical counsel for wives. Titus 2:4, 5 counsels them to “love their husbands, to love their children, to be sound in mind, chaste, workers at home, good, subjecting themselves to their own husbands.”
True, many women today resent the idea of subjecting themselves to their husbands. Of course, where a husband does not practice Bible principles and treats his wife badly, then subjection is very unpleasant.
But subjection to a husband who is a servant of God and who does apply Bible principles is no burden to a wife. Instead, it works for family harmony and good organization. And where the wife does her part, showing her husband love as well as what Ephesians 5:33 says, “deep respect,’’ then she finds that she usually draws the best out of him. He treats her even better, because God made him to respond to the love and respect of a wife.
However, even when a husband is not a servant of God, wifely submission can pay good dividends, as the apostle Peter counseled when he wrote: “You wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, in order that, if any are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect.”—1 Pet. 3:1, 2.
Now, are we saying that applying God’s ways will produce perfect marriages at this time? No, not now, since we are still imperfect. But it will produce much, much better marriages. So if you were to take 100 marriages and apply God’s ways to them, far more of them would be successful than 100 marriages where neither partner respected Bible principles.
Training Children
A large part of family problems has to do with children. Among young people there are great pressures toward immorality, drinking to excess, drug use, and rebellious attitudes toward parents. Many schools have become ‘jungles.’ What is the best way to counteract these bad influences?
The best way is to learn what Jehovah says, and then work hard at doing it. At Second Timothy 3:15 the apostle Paul said to Timothy: “From infancy you have known the holy writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation.”
Of course, any time is a good time to start teaching young ones what God says in his Word. But especially is this effective when begun in infancy. As Proverbs 22:6 states: “Train up a boy according to the way for him; even when he grows old he will not turn aside from it.”
Parents who are God’s servants know the value of Bible education. So from babyhood they take their children to Christian meetings, such as circuit and district assemblies and at the Kingdom Halls. These young ones are thus exposed to a wholesome spiritual environment year after year. They gradually learn about God, and hear the upbuilding expressions of mature Christians. They also learn community discipline.
These parents appreciate, however, that the home is the key place for child instruction. So, very early they begin reading with the children the Bible and publications that highlight godly principles. Not only do the children learn God’s ways at a very tender age, but they also learn how to read, even before starting school. And good reading ability is often the key to learning many other things.
A group of educators said: ‘The best way to prepare the very young child for reading is to read aloud to him stories he likes—over and over. The printed page, the security, the reassuring voice, the fascination of the story—all combine in the child’s mind to identify books as something which hold great pleasure.’
Another report states this: ‘Parents who conduct individual tutoring with their young play a role in producing children of above-normal intelligence. Most of these children who do better are raised by parents who carry on this one-to-one tutoring situation during the years before the child begins school.’
This type of education in God’s laws and principles really works. You can see the proof at the Kingdom Hall meetings and other assemblies of Jehovah’s Witnesses, in the large numbers of children, teenagers and young adults who are learning how to be servants of God.
Others recognize that it works too. A psychologist who dealt with young people became very disturbed at his agency’s inability to cope with youth problems. All their methods failed. But then he handled a case that really made him think. It involved a family with three children, all of whom were in trouble with the law. He considered the ease hopeless. But there was a break of many months in his handling of the case, after which he went back to the family. However, now he noted a remarkable change. The home that had been dirty and disorderly was neat and clean. The children were dressed presentably, and were much more secure. Why the amazing change? The psychologist relates that it was because the mother had been studying the Bible, had started instructing her children in it, and had been taking them to the Kingdom Hall meetings. She then applied to her everyday family life the Bible principles she was learning. The psychologist was so impressed that he himself began the same kind of study with Jehovah’s Witnesses.
However, does such child training guarantee that every child will turn out to be & highly principled servant of God when he grows up? No, because, here again, we have to remember that we are all imperfect, and that there are tremendous pressures working against children today. But, as with marriage, if you were to take 100 children and train them this way, far, far more of them would turn out to be decent, God-fearing adults than would 100 children not educated this way.
Yes, God’s ways do work to improve family life. They are a real help in marriage and with regard to training children. But there are other problems that require solutions too.
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Helping with Other ProblemsAwake!—1976 | October 8
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Helping with Other Problems
WE CAN all use the practical guidance that comes from God in dealing with a number of other major problem areas of life. One of these, for example, has to do with mental depression.
Mental depression is a serious and growing problem today. Ever so many people are profoundly depressed because of their own problems, and also because of what they see going on in their neighborhoods and in the world in general. They look to the future with dread.
Building an Optimistic Hope
But God’s servants know that all these bad things are part of the “last days,” and that they will shortly disappear when God brings this wicked system of things to an end and ushers in his righteous new order.
That knowledge certainly builds hope. It gives us an optimistic, confident outlook for the future. It helps to calm our spirit and improve our attitude, because we are not constantly upset by all the terrible things happening in the world. As Proverbs 14:30 says: “A calm heart is the life of the fleshly organism.” And Proverbs 17:22 adds: “A heart that is joyful does good as a curer, but a spirit that is stricken makes the bones dry.”
An example of how the accurate knowledge of God’s purpose overcomes such depression is the case of an elderly person whose wife died just before their 50th wedding anniversary. He wrote: “This left me very gloomy, and I could get no satisfaction from my church. I was so miserable that I finally decided to join my wife by committing suicide. I planned to pick poison weeds that grew in my neighborhood, make a brew of them and drink it. As I was actually starting to do this, two young people walked up the path to call on me. We talked for an hour or more about the Bible and God’s purpose for mankind. I didn’t finish making my brew that evening, as they promised to call back next week. They never missed a week’s call after that.”
This elderly man learned about God’s new order. He learned about the grand resurrection hope for his wife. He also learned who and what was responsible for sickness, sorrow and death, and that none of these things will exist in God’s new order. Since then, this man has become a dedicated servant of God, telling others about the good news of the new order.
A Help with Economic Problems
Can serving God help us with our economic problems? Yes, in several ways. One who sincerely serves God is assured of His backing. Jesus said: “Keep on, then, seeking first the kingdom and his righteousness, and all these other things [that is, material needs] will be added to you.”—Matt. 6:32, 33.
Also, the Bible helps us to see what the really important things are in life, so that we avoid the snare of materialism. This saves us a tremendous amount of money by our not wasting it on nonessentials that we cannot afford. We avoid being trapped like so many people who ‘spend money they don’t have, to buy things they don’t need, to impress people they don’t even know or like.’
In addition, by avoiding various bad habits, such as excessive drinking, and also by not smoking, a person safeguards his health and saves money to spend on necessities. Since smoking is responsible for about 90 percent of lung-cancer deaths, and other ailments, think of how many problems can be avoided by conquering just that one unclean habit, as a servant of God knows he must do.
Too, the Bible teaches us to be honest, to work hard, to give a good day’s work to our employer. Often this results in God’s servants being highly valued as employees. One garage owner asked his Witness worker to cheat his customers. But the Witness told him: “If I could cheat your customers, I could cheat you too. Now, you wouldn’t want that, would you?” His employer saw the point and valued his services even more after that.
But, of course, economic problems will persist as long as this present system lasts. Only the new order under God’s heavenly kingdom will eliminate all economic injustices such as extremes of wealth and poverty, unemployment for millions, undesirable work, and hunger for hundreds of millions of persons.
In that new order, as Psalm 72:16 says, “There will come to be plenty of grain on the earth; on the top of the mountains there will be an overflow.” The God who created the earth and its fruitful fields knows how to place mankind’s economic system on a proper basis so that all will be truly prosperous and content in his new order.
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The Best Solutions to Our ProblemsAwake!—1976 | October 8
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The Best Solutions to Our Problems
THERE are many other areas in life where being a servant of God helps us to deal with problems. It helps us to learn how to get along best with all kinds of people, how to handle personality differences, how to improve relationships with family, friends, neighbors, and how to handle mistakes—ours and those of other people too. But the few examples already noted illustrate that serving God is the most practical way to keep our problems manageable. And those problems that are beyond our control, God himself will solve for us in due time.
This twofold assistance that God’s servants get (that is, the best counsel in handling our problems today, and the grand hope of having all problems completely solved in his new order) gives his servants a peace of mind and joy that are missing in the lives of those who do not serve God. This contrast is interestingly described for us at Isaiah chapter 65, verses 13 and 14. It says:
“Therefore this is what the Sovereign Lord Jehovah has said: ‘Look! My own servants will eat, but you yourselves will go hungry. Look! My own servants will drink, but you yourselves will go thirsty. Look! My own servants will rejoice, but you yourselves will suffer shame. Look! My own servants will cry out joyfully became of the good condition of the heart, but you yourselves will make outcries because of the pain of heart and you will howl because of sheer breakdown of spirit.’”
Yes, serving God certainly makes sense, because, as First Timothy 4:8 says, it holds ‘promise, not only of a better life now, but of a far, far better life to come’ in God’s new order.
And what a wonderful life that will be in the new order! Think of living on a beautiful earth, free of pollution, crime, war, poverty, sickness and even death!
Imagine the thrill, each day of life, of enjoying the many things God has created for his people—the majestic mountains, refreshing forests, flower-decked gardens, the fascinating animal life, the sparkling streams and lakes, delicious foods, as well as the joy of having loving families and friends. Such things will make up the permanent way of life that God is now preparing his servants for.
Really, all things considered, there can be no doubt that serving God can help you with your problems. The question that remains is whether you want to serve him or not. You should want to, since Jehovah is a kind, generous, loving God that gives his people so many benefits. Also, he does not put such heavy burdens on you that you cannot bear them. So serving him is a pleasure.
Indeed, the investment of your time and energy in learning how to serve God is like investing a penny and getting countless wealth in return. Why? Because Jehovah will back you up and will certainly bless your efforts to serve him. He will help you with your problems now, and let you live forever in his problem-free new order, where, as Psalm 145:16 promises, Jehovah will ‘open his hand and will satisfy the desire of every living thing.’
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