SETTLING PERSONAL DIFFERENCES
(See also Arguments [Quarrels]; Disagreements; Disputes; Misunderstandings; Offense; Strife)
Abraham and Lot: w16.05 5-6; w11 8/15 25; w04 1/15 27; w04 5/15 27; w03 1/15 19; w01 8/15 21-23, 26-27; w00 8/15 24; w98 9/1 22
apologizing: w02 11/1 3-7; w96 9/15 22-24
avoiding gossip when: w89 10/15 12
controlling the tongue when: w96 5/15 22
discussion: scl 105-106; w17.06 16-20; w16.05 3-7; w08 11/15 17-19; w07 10/1 29-30; w00 8/15 23-25; w00 12/15 30
Euodia and Syntyche: w19.08 9-10; w16.11 14-15; w03 1/15 20
experiences:
brother and sister reunited: w02 4/15 21; w99 1/1 4-5
youth with murderous intent: yb17 67-68
humility required, strengthened: it-1 1160; w09 11/15 22-23; w05 10/15 30-31
illustration of king who canceled large debt (Mt 18): w16.01 16; si 179
Israel (ancient): it-2 233
Jacob and Esau: w21.12 25-27; lfb 36-37; w11 8/15 23-24; yp1 48
Jehovah involved: it-2 233
Jesus’ counsel (Mt 5:23, 24): cl 222-223; w21.12 25-27; od 142-143; mwb18.01 8; w16.05 5; w09 2/15 10-11; w08 5/15 6-7; w02 3/15 5; w02 11/1 5-6; w99 10/15 16; w96 7/15 18; g96 2/8 26-27; w94 7/15 21-22; om 140
video Making Peace Brings Blessings: lff lesson 56
Jesus’ counsel (Mt 18:15-17): scl 106; od 145-148; it-1 788; w16.05 6-7; w16.12 18; w99 10/15 17-22; w97 3/15 21; w94 7/15 22-23; om 142-145
listening: w05 11/15 12
not using the silent treatment: scl 105; g 6/13 4-5; w06 9/15 23-24; w96 5/15 22-23
Paul and Barnabas (Ac 15:37-39): w22.08 23; bt 119-120, 122; w11 4/15 23-24; w03 1/15 19-20; w98 4/15 22-23; w90 6/15 14; pe 233-234
peacefully: w18.01 10-11; w17.06 16-20; w16.04 11-12; w16.05 4-6; mwb16.10 6; g 8/14 3-6; w12 7/15 28-29; g 3/12 10-11; w11 8/15 28-30; w09 11/15 22-24; w08 11/15 17-19; w05 3/1 3-7; w03 1/15 19-20; w01 8/15 26-27; w98 11/1 4-7
with friends: g89 9/22 27
within the congregation: scl 29, 105; w22.08 22-23; lff lesson 56; od 141-143; w18.01 9-11; it-1 499, 519, 1160; w17.07 29; w17.11 27; w16.04 11-12; w16.05 5-7; jy 151; w12 7/15 28-29; w11 4/15 23-24; w11 8/15 28-30; w10 6/15 17-18, 21-22; w07 4/15 27; w07 12/15 13; jd 112-114; w03 3/15 15, 19-20; w02 7/15 13-14; wt 145-149; w01 2/1 20-21; w97 8/15 19; w97 12/1 19; kl 166; w94 7/15 21-24; w91 3/1 22-23; w91 9/1 23; gt chapter 63; w90 8/1 17; w89 11/15 19; om 138-140, 142-145; pe 232-237; w88 2/15 9
how elders help: w12 7/15 29-30; w11 8/15 30; w11 9/15 31-32
video Making Peace Brings Blessings: lff lesson 56
whether elders should be involved: w90 6/15 14
within the family: g 12/15 3-5; pe 247-249; yp 18-25, 29-30
among siblings: yp1 40-48; yp 50-55
between mates: ijwhf article 6; scl 73-74; w20.04 32; w20.07 3-4; g18.2 6; g 12/15 8-9; hf 9-11; w13 5/15 17-18; g 2/13 4-5; g 4/13 4-5; w11 2/1 4-9; w11 5/1 14; w11 8/1 12; w11 10/15 15-16; yp1 290-291; w08 2/1 18-20; w08 3/15 11; w08 5/1 10-12; w08 8/15 29; g 7/08 6-8; w07 5/1 19-20, 23; g 10/07 20; w06 9/15 21-24; w05 6/1 20-23; wt 154-156; w01 9/1 11; fy 30-31, 37, 155-156; kl 143
communication: g90 2/22 9-10
in-laws: scl 73; g 3/15 8-9; g90 2/22 3-11
with parents: ijwyp article 43
with workmates: g02 2/22 6-7