Umtjhado
Wathomaphi umtjhado?
UmKrestu kufuze akhethe umuntu onjani ukuthi abe mlinganakhe womtjhado?
Kubayini umKrestu weqiniso kungakafuzi avume bona indodana namkha indodakazakhe ebhajadisiweko itjhade nomuntu ongakazinikeli kuJehova bewabhajadiswa?
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
Gen 24:1-4, 7—Lokha u-Abrahama nasele akhulile, wazimisela ukufunela indodanakhe u-Isaka umfazi hlangana nabantu abalotjha uJehova, ingasi hlangana namaKanana ebekalotjha abanye abozimu
Gen 28:1-4—U-Isaka utjela uJakopo ukuthi akukafuzi atjhade nomfazi omKanana kodwana bekufuze afumane umfazi olotjha uJehova
UJehova uzizwa njani ngomKrestu otjhada nomuntu ongakholwako?
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
1Kh 11:1-6, 9-11—UJehova wakwatela uSolomoni ngebanga lokungalaleli iinqophiso zakhe, watjhada nabafazi bakezinye iintjhaba begodu wabavumela bamenza wangasathandi uJehova
Ner 13:23-27—NjengoJehova, umPhathi uNerhemiya wakwata khulu lokha amadoda wakwa-Israyeli nakatjhada nabafazi bakwezinye iinarha nabangalotjhi uJehova, yeke wabanikela isiyalo bewabalungisa
Kubayini kukuhlakanipha ukukhetha ukutjhada nomuntu olotjha uJehova ngokuthembeka nowaziwa ngobuntu obuhle?
Funda godu Efe 5:28-31, 33
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
1Sa 25:2, 3, 14-17—UNabhali indoda ka-Abigeyili bekayindoda enjingileko kodwana bekanelunya begodu atlhorisa, lokho kwamenza indoda engakalungi
IzA 21:9—Nange senza isinqunto esingakahlakaniphi, singatjhada nomuntu ozosenza singathabi besingabi nokuthula
Rom 7:2—Umpostoli uPowula, uhlathulula ukuthi lokha umfazi nakatjhadako, ngokwezinga elithileko uba ngaphasi kwelawulo lendodakhe enesono, yeke umfazi ohlakaniphileko uyatjhejisisa ukuthi ukhetha ukutjhada nomuntu onjani
Ukulungiselela umtjhado
Kubayini indoda kufuze izilungiselele ukutlhogomela umndenayo ngaphambi kobana itjhade?
Isibonelo esiseBhayibhelini esingasisiza:
IzA 24:27—Ngaphambi kobana indoda itjhade begodu okungenzeka ibe nabantwana kufuze isebenze budisi, ikulungele ukutlhogomela umndenayo
Kubayini abantu ababili abathandanako kufuze badzimelele ekufumaneni iseluleko esihlakaniphileko begodu bazane ngcono kunokobana badzimelele endleleni omunye aqaleka ngayo ngaphandle?
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
Rut 2:4-7, 10-12—UBhowazi wabona ukuthi uRute mfazi onjani ngokuqala indlela ebekasebenza nebekaphatha ngayo uNawomi nangokulalela lokho abantu abathembekileko ebebakutjho ngaye nangokuthi umthanda kangangani uJehova
Rut 2:8, 9, 20—URute wabona ukuthi uBhowazi bekanomusa, aphana begodu athanda uJehova
Kubayini uJehova afuna abantu abathandanako baziphathe kuhle nabasafundanako nalokha nabathembisene umtjhado?
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
IzA 5:18, 19—Ezinye iindlela zokutjengisa ithando ngezabantu abatjhadileko kwaphela
Ngo 1:2; 2:6—Umelusi nomntazana weTjhulami batjengisana njani ukuthi bathandana ngendlela ehloniphekileko nehlwengekileko?
Ngo 4:12; 8:8-10—Umntazana weTjhulami waziphatha kuhle begodu ufaniswa nesimu ekhiyiweko
Kubayini abantu kufuze batjhade ngokomthetho?
Indima yendoda
Khuyini uJehova ayilindele endodeni?
Ngisiphi isibonelo indoda etjhadileko ekufuze isilandele malungana nokuba yihloko yomndeni?
Kubayini kuqakathekile ngendoda ukutjengisa ukuthi iyamthanda umkayo beyizwisise lokho akutlhogako nendlela azizwa ngayo?
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
Gen 21:8-12—UJehova utjela u-Abrahama ukuthi alalele umkakhe uSara nanyana umbonwakhe bekangawuthandi
IzA 31:10, 11, 16, 28—Indoda ehlakaniphileko enomfazi onobuntu obuhle, ayimkateleli ukuthi enze okuthileko namkha iqale imitjhaphakhe kunalokho iyamthemba begodu iyambuka
Efe 5:33—Umpostoli uPowula utjengisa ukuthi umfazi utlhoga isiqinisekiso nokwazi ukuthi indodakhe iyamthanda
Indima yomfazi
Ngimuphi umthwalo oqakathekileko uJehova awunikele abafazi abamaKrestu?
Kghani indima yomfazi imenza aqalelwe phasi?
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
IzA 1:8; 1Ko 7:4—UZimu unikele abafazi nabomma ilungelo lokwenza okuthileko emndenini
1Ko 11:3—Umpostoli uPowula uhlathulula ukuthi elungiselelweni lakaJehova, soke singaphasi kwelawulo elithileko ngaphandle kwakaZimu uMninimandla Woke
Heb 13:7, 17—Ebandleni, amadoda nabafazi kufuze basebenzisane bebalalele labo abadosa phambili
Umfazi omKrestu otjhade nomuntu ongakholwako angamthabisa njani uJehova?
Kubayini umfazi omKrestu kufuze ahloniphe indodakhe?
Isibonelo esiseBhayibhelini esingasisiza:
Gen 18:12; 1Pt 3:5, 6 —USara wamhlonipha khulu u-Abrahama begodu wamqala ‘njengekosi’
IBhayibheli libuka umfazi onjani?
Iimbonelo eziseBhayibhelini ezingasisiza:
Gen 24:62-67—URabega ududuza indodakhe u-Isaka ngemva kokuhlongakalelwa ngunina
1Sa 25:14-24, 32-38—U-Abigeyili uvikela indodakhe esidlhadlha begodu usindisa indlwakhe ngokuthi azithobe bekabe nomusa kuDavida
Est 4:6-17; 5:1-8; 7:1-6; 8:3-6—Indlovukazi u-Esta ibeka ukuphila kwayo engozini kabili ngokuthi iye endodenayo ingakabizwa, bona ibawele abantu bakaZimu isivikelo
Ukurarulula imiraro
Ngiziphi iinkambisolawulo ezingasiza abantu abatjhadileko ukusombulula imiraro engaba khona emtjhadweni?
Ngiziphi iinkambisolawulo ezingasiza abatjhadikazi babe nombono ofaneleko ngemali?
Luk 12:15; Flp 4:5; 1Tm 6:9, 10; Heb 13:5
Funda nesihloko esithi, “Imali”