Tentsenefe tin’funika ‘kupitiriza kumbafunana.’ Tsono, mpsakufunika kwene-kwene kukumbukira mafala yomwe Jezu adalewa, yakuti “lufoyi la wanthu azinji lin’dzacepekera.” (Mat. 24:12) Jezu akhafuna lini kulewa kuti anyakupfunza wace angadasiya kulatizana lufoyi. Koma tin’funika kukhala tceru kuti tireke kutengera makhalidwe ya wanthu omwe alibe lufoyi wa m’dzikoli. Pomwe tikukumbukira bzimwebzi, mbaticezeraneni mbvunzo wakufunikayu, wakuti: N’ciyani cin’dzatithandiza kudziwa penu lufoyi lomwe tinalo kwa abale wathu ndamphanvu? Njira ibodzi yomwe ingatithandize kuwona penu lufoyi lomwe tinalo kwa abale wathu ndamphanvu ndiyo kuwona momwe timbacitira bzinthu pa moyo wathu. (2 Ako. 8:8) Cibodzi mwa bzinthu bzimwebzi ni comwe mpostolo Pedru adalewa. Iye adati: “Kuposa bzentse, mbafunanani na mtima wentse, thangwe lufoyi limbampsinkha pikado zizinji.” (1 Ped. 4:8) Ndipopa bzomwe tingacite abale wathu akatiphonyera ayai bzinthu bzomwe iwo acita bzomwe bzatisunamisa bzin’dzatithandiza kudziwa penu lufoyi lathu kwa iwo ndamphanvu. w23.11 10-11 ¶12-13

Ifepano tingakwanise lini kubvera lamulo la Jezuli penu lufoyi lathu timbalilatiza lini kuna abale wentse m’gwere. N’cadidi kuti ifepano tingakhale axamwali wa abale winango m’gwere ticileka kukhala axamwali wa winango ninga momwe Jezu adacitira. (Juw. 13:23; 20:2) Tsono mpostolo Pedru akutikumbusa kuti tin’funika kucita nyongo ya kufuna ‘abale wanthu wentse’ na kulatiza lufoyi kuna iwo pakukhala abale na mpfumakazi zathu. (1 Ped. 2:17) Pedru adatiuza kuti: “Mbafunanani na mtima wentse.” (1 Ped. 1:22) Mafala yakuti “mbafunanani na mtima wentse” yakulatiza kuti tin’funika kumbacita nyongo yakulatiza lufoyi kuna abale na mpfumakazi zathu napo kuti nthawe zinango bzingakhale bzakunesa kwa ifepano thangwe ra makhalidwe yathu. Mwa ciratizo, tani penu m’bale akucitirani cinthu comwe mulibe kukomedwa naco? Thangwe ra kuperewera, pinango ifepano tingakumbuke bzakufuna kumubwezera sikuti kumulatiza lufoyi. Tsono Pedru adapfunza na Jezu kuti Mulungu ambafuna lini kuti atumiki wace ambabwezere cakuipa na cakuipa. (Juw. 18:10, 11) Pedru adanemba kuti: “Lekani kubwezera cakuipa na cakuipa ayai kutukwana na kutukwana, m’mbuto mwace mbalewani mafala yabwino.” (1 Ped. 3:9) Bvumani kuti lufoyi likucitiseni kuti mulatize kudeka mtima kuna abale wanu. w23.09 28-29 ¶9-11

Ifepano timbadabwa kwene-kwene na momwe mwana ambakulira mwakamfulumize. Bzimbakhala ninga kuti kukulako kumbandocitika kokha. Tsono kukula mwauzimu kumbandocitika lini kokha. (1 Ako. 13:11; Aheb. 6:1) Kuti tikwanise kukula mwauzimu, ifepano tin’funika kukhala pa uxamwali bwakulimba na Yahova. Ndipo timbafunikirambo mzimu wace wakucena kuti utithandize kukhala na makhalidwe yabwino na kuti utithandizembo kukhala na makhalidwe yomwe yangadzatithandize kutsogolo. (Mim. 1:5) Yahova adakonza wanthu kuti akhale amuna ayai akazi. (Gen. 1:27) Timbakwanisa kuwona kuti mwamuna na mkazi adasiyana kaimidwe kawo, tsono adasiyanambo mu njira inango. Mwa ciratizo, Yahova adakonza amuna na akazi kuti acite mabasa yakusiyana-siyana ndipo iwo an’funika kukhala na makhalidwe na luso lomwe lingawathandize kucita mabasayo. — Gen. 2:18. w23.12 18 ¶1-2