Olketa wea herem datfala “stupid woman” mas disaed if bae olketa acceptim or rejectim invitation blo hem. Samfala gud reason stap why iumi mas avoidim wei for durong. Bible storyim hao datfala “stupid woman” sei: ‘Wata wea olketa stilim, hem suit!’ (Provebs 9:​17, SIPB) Wat nao datwan minim? Bible comparem sex between hasband and waef witim fresh wata. (Provebs 5:​15-18, SIPB) Man and woman wea marit blo tufala hem legal nomoa savve enjoyim sex. Bat datfala ‘wata wea olketa stilim’ no olsem. Hem savve minim wei for durong. Staka taem pipol savve durong haed, olsem man for steal hem stealim samting haed. Maet datfala ‘wata wea olketa stilim’ hem swit, if olketa wea duim datwan tingse no eniwan bae faendaot lo wat olketa duim. Bat olketa laea lo olketa seleva, bikos Jehovah lukim evri samting! Worse samting wea savve happen lo iumi, hem taem Jehovah no hapi lo iumi, so datwan hem nating “suit.”—1 Cor. 6:​9, 10. w23.06 22 ¶7-9

Hao if, for lelebet taem iu feel olsem olketa prea blo iu hem no kam from heart or iu no really enjoyim ministry? No tingse Jehovah stop nao for givim iu holy spirit. From iu no perfect, samfala taem feeling blo iu savve change. If feeling blo iu for laek duim waka blo Jehovah hem gogo daon, hem gud for tingim example blo aposol Paul. Nomata Paul traem best for followim example blo Jesus, samfala taem hem feel olsem hem no laek for duim datfala waka. Paul disaed strong for duim ministry blo hem nomata samfala taem hem no feel laek for duim datwan. Lo sem wei tu, no letem feeling blo iu for affectim olketa disison blo iu. Disaed strong for duim stret samting nomata wat nao maet feeling blo iu. Sapos iu gohed duim stret samting, gogo bae feeling blo iu hem change.—1 Cor. 9:16. w24.03 11-12 ¶12-13

Iumi savve showimaot iumi lovem olketa brata and sista taem iumi kamap fren blo olketa and spendem taem witim olketa. (2 Cor. 6:​11-13) Staka lo iumi insaed olketa kongregeson wea olketa brata and sista garem difren baekgraon and garem olketa difren wei. Iumi savve strongim love blo iumi for evriwan lo olketa taem iumi gohed tingim olketa gudfala wei blo olketa. Taem iumi lane for garem sem tingting olsem Jehovah abaotem olketa narawan, datwan pruvim iumi lovem olketa. Iumi bae need for lovem olketa brata and sista lo taem blo bigfala trabol. Taem datfala trabol hem start, hao nao bae Jehovah protectim iumi? Tingim wanem Jehovah talem lo pipol blo hem for duim taem enemy attakim Babylon bifor. Hem sei: “Pipol blo mi, iufala go insaed olketa rum blo iufala, and satem kam door. Iufala haed insaed for lelebet taem go kasem taem kros blo God hem finis.” (Isa. 26:20) Luk olsem, bae iumi tu followim olketa instruction hia lo taem blo bigfala trabol. w23.07 6-7 ¶14-16