Na te akakoreanga i te ara e tamate i te ai o te riri
TOKORUA AKAIPOIPO
4 Akakore i te Ara
EAA TE AITEANGA
Kia akakore i te ara, ka akangaropoina koe i te tarevake e te tu riri ta te reira i akatupu. Kare koe e anoanoia kia akaiti i te tarevake me kore kia manako e kare te reira i tupu.
KAVEINGA PIPIRIA: “E tauturu atu tetai ki tetai, e akakore tetai i ta tetai ara, e tapepeanga ta tetai ki tetai ra.”—Kolosa 3:13.
“Me e inangaro toou i tetai tangata, kare koe e akamou ki runga i tona au tarevake mari ra ka akara ua koe i tona au tu meitaki.”—Aaron.
EAA I PUAPINGA AI
Me akamoupuku ua rai koe, ka tamamae te reira ia koe i te pae kopapa e te manako ngakau—e ka takino katoa i toou akaipoipo.
“Tetai atianga, kua tataraara mai taku tane no te mamae tana i akatupu kiaku. E ngata tikai i te akakore i tana i rave, inara kua rave au i te reira. Tataraara tikai au kare au i rave viviki i te reira no te mea kua akataitaia maata teia i to maua pirianga.”—Julia.
TAAU KA RAVE
TIMATA IA KOE UAORAI
Me tupu te mamae kia koe no tetai apinga ta toou tokorua i rave me kore i tuatua, e ui kia koe uaorai:
‘Ka viviki ainei au i te riri iaia?’
‘E kino tikai ainei te reira e ka anoanoia aia kia tataraara mai, me ka rauka iaku te akangaropoina i te reira?’
URIURI KI TOOU TOKORUA
Eaa te roa ia taua me akamoupuku i mua ake ka akakore ei i ta taua ara?
Eaa ta taua ka rave kia rauka i te akakore viviki i ta taua ara?
RAVE I TEIA
Me riri koe, auraka e manako kino atu i toou tokorua.
Tauta i te akangaropoina i tana i rave, ma te akamaara “te apa anake nei tatou i te au mea katoa e manganui.”—Iakobo 3:2.
“E mama ake i te akakore i te ara me kua tarevake maua katoa, inara e ngata i te akakore me ko toku tokorua tei tarevake. Me e tu akaaka toou, ka āriki koe i tana tataraara e ka akakore i tana ara.”—Kimberly.
KAVEINGA PIPIRIA: “Kia rapurapu koe i te akatika taau tuatua.”—Mataio 5:25.
Me akamoupuku ua rai koe, ka tamamae te reira ia koe i te pae kopapa e te manako ngakau—e ka takino katoa i toou akaipoipo