11. (a) Mbuti motunga twatondezya luyando munzila yalubomba alimwi iisalala? (b) Mbuti mbotunga twatondezya kuti tatukondelwi zitaluleme?

¹¹ Alimwi Paulo wakalemba kuti luyando lulaa “luzyalo” alimwi akuti “talulisumpuli.” (1 Ba-Korinto 13:4, 5) Inzya, luyando talukatuzumizyi kucita zintu munzila yalweeno alimwi iinyina bulemu. Muciindi caboobo, tuyoobikkila maanu kunzila mbobalimvwa bamwi. Mucikozyanyo, imuntu uulaaluyando uyookweeleba kucita zintu zikonzya kunyonganya manjezeezyaa bamwi. (Amweezyanisye 1 Ba-Korinto 8:13.) Luyando “talukondelwi zitaluleme pe, lulakondelwa lusinizyo.” (1 Ba-Korinto 13:6) Ikuti katuyanda mulawo wa Jehova, kwiina notuyakucicesya cibi cabwaamu nokuba kukondelezyegwaa zintu Leza nzyasulide. (Intembauzyo 119:97) Luyando luyootugwasya kujana lukkomano muzintu ziyaka muciindi cazintu zimwaya.—Ba-Roma 15:2; 1 Ba-Korinto 10:23, 24; 14:26.

16. Muziimo nzi luyando molunga lwatugwasya kukkazika moyo?

¹⁶ Mpoonya Paulo utwaambila kuti “luyandisyo lulakazika moyo.” (1 Ba-Korinto 13:4) Lutucitya kuti tukonzye kuliyumya mubukkale bubyaabi, ambweni kwaciindi cilamfwu. Mucikozyanyo, Banakristo banji kwamyaka iili mbwiibede bazumanana mumikwasyi imunga tabali boonse ibasyoma. Bamwi kakunyina kulisalila tabanakwata naa kukwatwa akaambo kakuti bakakilwa kujana muntu weelede “muna-Kristo.” (1 Ba-Korinto 7:39; 2 Ba-Korinto 6:14) Mpoonya kuli abaabo ibapengana akaambo kakuciswa-ciswa. (Ba-Galatiya 4:13, 14; Ba-Filipi 2:25-30) Masimpe, mubweende bwazintu obu butalondokede, kwiina muntu uulaabukkale ibutakwe ciimo nociba cimwi buyo motweelede kuliyumya.—Matayo 10:22; Jakobo 1:12.