9. Nzikozyanyo nzi nzyolijisi Ibbaibbele kujatikizya bantu ibakalilangilila buyo beni?

⁹ Luyando “talulilangilili cintu.” (1 Ba-Korinto 13:5) Muntu uulaaluyando lwini-lwini kwiina nabelesya bamwi cabumpelenge kutegwa ajane ncayanda. Ibbaibbele lilijisi zikozyanyo zyakucenjezya kujatikizya makani aaya. Mucikozyanyo: Tulabala zya Delila, Jezebeli alimwi a Ataliya—banakazi ibakabelesya bamwi cabumpelenge kutegwa bazuzikizye zintu zyabo beni. (Babetesi 16:16; 1 Bami 21:25; 2 Makani 22:10-12) Alimwi kuli amwanaa Mwami Davida, Abisalomu. Wakali kunga usikila baabo ibakali kuswaya munzi wa Jerusalemu kutegwa bazikubetekwe alimwi cabumpelenge wakali kutongooka kuti inkuta yamwami tiiyakali kubikkila maanu kumapenzi aabo. Mpoonya wakali kunga waamba kuti icakali kuyandika cini-cini kunkuta mmuntu siluzyalo mbuli nguwe! (2 Samuele 15:2-4) Aino, Abisalomu wakabikkilide maanu ikutali kubantu bakali kudyaamininwa, pele kuli lwakwe mwini. Naakali kubeleka kali mwami sikulibikka mwini, wakanyonganya myoyo yabantu banji. Pele kumbele Abisalomu wakazundwa cakumaninina. Naakafwa, kwiina naakazikkwa pe, wakaile kusowegwa.—2 Samuele 18:6-17.

10. Mbuti mbotunga twatondezya kuti tulazibikkila maanu zintu nzyobayanda bamwi?

¹⁰ Eci ncikozyanyo cakucenjezya ku Banakristo sunu. Tube baalumi naa banakazi, tulakonzya tuzyedwe anguzu zyakuyunga bamwi. Atwaambe, tulakonzya kuzwidilila munzila imwi kwiinda mukuba ndiswe buyo notubandika naa kutyompya baabo ibajisi muzeezo uumbi. Pele, ikuti katujisi luyando lwini-lwini tuyoobikkila maanu aazintu zyabamwi. (Ba-Filipi 2:2-4) Kwiina notuyoosinkilizya bamwi nokuba kuleta mizeezo mibyaabi akaambo kakuti tulizyibide naa akaambo kacuuno ncotujisi mumbunga ya Leza akucita mbuli kuti mizeezo yesu njiilaampindu ilikke. Muciindi caboobo, tuyooyeeya kaambyo kamu Bbaibbele kakuti: “Kulisumpula kulazulwida lunyonyooko, akamikami kali kunembo lyakuwa.”—Tusimpi 16:18.

11. (a) Mbuti motunga twatondezya luyando munzila yalubomba alimwi iisalala? (b) Mbuti mbotunga twatondezya kuti tatukondelwi zitaluleme?

¹¹ Alimwi Paulo wakalemba kuti luyando lulaa “luzyalo” alimwi akuti “talulisumpuli.” (1 Ba-Korinto 13:4, 5) Inzya, luyando talukatuzumizyi kucita zintu munzila yalweeno alimwi iinyina bulemu. Muciindi caboobo, tuyoobikkila maanu kunzila mbobalimvwa bamwi. Mucikozyanyo, imuntu uulaaluyando uyookweeleba kucita zintu zikonzya kunyonganya manjezeezyaa bamwi. (Amweezyanisye 1 Ba-Korinto 8:13.) Luyando “talukondelwi zitaluleme pe, lulakondelwa lusinizyo.” (1 Ba-Korinto 13:6) Ikuti katuyanda mulawo wa Jehova, kwiina notuyakucicesya cibi cabwaamu nokuba kukondelezyegwaa zintu Leza nzyasulide. (Intembauzyo 119:97) Luyando luyootugwasya kujana lukkomano muzintu ziyaka muciindi cazintu zimwaya.—Ba-Roma 15:2; 1 Ba-Korinto 10:23, 24; 14:26.

12, 13. (a) Mbuti mbotweelede kulimvwa muntu umwi natubisizya? (b) Amwaambe zikozyanyo zyamu Bbaibbele izitondezya kuti nobuba bukali buli kabotu bulakonzya kutucitya kuti tucite cintu cimwi cabufwubafwuba.

¹² Paulo wakalemba kuti luyando “talufwambi kujata bukali” (“talunyemi-nyemi,” Ci). (1 Ba-Korinto 13:5) Ee, cili buyo kabotu kubantu batalondokede kunyonganizigwa naa kukalala muntu umwi naatulubizizya. Nokuba boobo, nkulubizya ikuzumanana kucimwa naa kuzumanana kamunyemede. (Intembauzyo 4:4; Ba-Efeso 4:26) Ikuti tiikwalulamikwa, nobuba bukali buli kabotu bulakonzya kucitya kuti muntu acite zintu zibyaabi elyo Jehova inga waakutupa mulandu kujatikizya ceeci.—Matalikilo 34:1-31; 49:5-7; Myeelwe 12:3; 20:10-12; Intembauzyo 106:32, 33.

¹³ Bamwi balekela kutalondoka kwabamwi ikubatyompya kuya kumiswaangano Yabunakristo naa kutola lubazu mumulimo wamumuunda. Musyule, ibunji bwabali boobu balulwanina kapati lusyomo, zimwi ziindi ambweni kwiinda mukuliyumya akuzwidilila mukukazigwa kwamumukwasyi, kusampaulwa ambocibeleka limwi azimwi zili boobu. Muzintu zili boobu bakaliyumya nkaambo bakaibona kuba misunko yakusyomeka kwabo, alimwi aayo masimpe. Pele ino ncinzi cicitika iciindi Munakristoma naamba naa kucita cintu cimwi cibyaabi? Sena eci acalo tacili musunko wakusyomeka? Mmusunko, nkaambo kakuti naa twazumanana kunyema, inga ‘twapa Saatani busena.’—Ba-Efeso 4:27.

14, 15. (a) Ino caamba nzi ‘ikuyeeya inkoto yabubi’? (b) Mbuti mbotunga twaiya Jehova mukuba bantu bajatila?

¹⁴ Cakweelela, Paulo wayungizya kuti luyando “taluyeeyi inkoto yabubi.” (1 Ba-Korinto 13:5) Aawa ubelesya bbala lyakubikkilila, kubambilila, kutegwa ape muzeezo wakulemba mulandu mubbuku kutegwa utakalubwi. Sena ncaluyando ikubikkilila bbala libyaabi naa mucito umwi uutakondi mumizeezo, mbuli kuti cimwi ciindi kumbele tuyooyandika kupilukila kulinguwo? Cilakkomanisya kaka kuti Jehova kwiina natulingula munzila yalunya iili boobo! (Intembauzyo 130:3) Inzya, notweempwa, ulazizimaazya zibi zyesu.—Incito 3:19.

¹⁵ Tulakonzya kumwiiya Jehova mumakani aya. Tatweelede kubikkila maanu kapati iciindi muntu umwi nalibonya kuti watubisizya. Ikuti katufwambaana kulubizigwa, tulakonzya kulipenzya buyo tobeni kwiinda mbwanga walimvwa imuntu ooyo iwatubisizya. (Mukambausi 7:9, 22) Muciindi caboobo, tweelede kunoyeeya kuti luyando ‘lulasyoma lyoonse.’ (1 Ba-Korinto 13:7) Aino, kwiina wandiswe uuyanda kufwubaazigwa lyoonse, pele alimwi tatweelede kuciindizya kuyeeyela miyeeyo yabakwesu. Kufwumbwa nocikonzyeka, lyoonse atusyome kuti kwiina mizeezo mibyaabi akati kesu.—Ba-Kolose 3:13.