Tose tikwenera ‘kulutilira kutemwana.’ Ndipouli, ntchakuzirwa kukumbuka kuti Yesu wakachenjezga kuti “chitemwa cha ŵanandi chizamuzizima.” (Mat. 24:12) Apa Yesu wakang’anamuranga kuti ŵasambiri ŵake wose ŵazamuleka kulongora chitemwa yayi. Ndipouli tikwenera kuŵa maso chomene kuti tileke kuzomerezga kuti mzimu wa charu ichi utimbanizge chitemwa chithu. Apo tili na fundo iyi mu maghanoghano, tiyeni tighanaghanire fumbo lakulondezgapo ili: Kasi ntchivichi chingatovwira kumanya usange tikuŵatemwa zanadi ŵabali ŵithu? Nthowa yimoza iyo tingamanyira usange tikuŵatemwa zanadi ŵabali na ŵadumbu ŵithu, nkhuwona umo tikuchitira nawo vinthu pa vyakuchitika vinyake. (2 Kor. 8:8) Mpositole Petrosi wakayowoyapo chimoza mwa vinthu ivi. Iyo wakati: “Kuluska vyose mutemwanenge chomene, chifukwa chitemwa chikubenekelera zakwananga zinandi.” (1 Pet. 4:8) Ntheura umo tikuchitira para ŵabali na ŵadumbu ŵithu ŵabudiska vinthu vinyake, vingalongora usange tikuŵatemwa zanadi. w23.11 10-11 ¶12-13

Para tikulongora chitemwa ku ŵanji mu mpingo apo ŵanyake tikuŵalongora yayi ndikuti tikupulikira yayi dango la Yesu lakukhwaskana na chitemwa. Mbunenesko kuti ŵanyake tikutemwana nawo chomene kuluska ŵanyake, nga umo vikaŵira na Yesu. (Yoh. 13:23; 20:2) Kweni mpositole Petrosi wakutikumbuska kuti tikwenera kuŵikapo mtima “kutemwa ŵabali” wose nga umo ŵanthu ŵakutemwerana pa ubali. (1 Pet. 2:17) Petrosi wakutichiska kuti tikwenera ‘kutemwana chomene kufumira mu mtima.’ (1 Pet. 1:22) Mu nkhani iyi, mazgu ghakuti ‘kutemwana chomene’ ghakusazgapo kutemwaso munthu uyo ntchakusuzga kumulongora chitemwa. Mwachiyelezgero, wuli usange mubali watibudira panji kutikhuŵazga? Nyengo zinyake tingakhumba nga kuti timuwezgere waka m’malo mwa kumulongora chitemwa. Ndipouli, Petrosi wakasambira kwa Yesu kuti kachitiro kanthena aka kakumukondweska yayi Chiuta. (Yoh. 18:​10, 11) Petrosi wakalemba kuti: “Lekani kuwezgera uheni pa uheni, nesi kutuka pa kutuka. Kweni mutumbikenge ŵanthu.” (1 Pet. 3:9) Para mukutemwa chomene ŵanji muŵenge ŵalusungu kweniso muŵaghanaghanirenge. w23.09 28-29 ¶9-11

Chikuŵa chakuzizika chomene na umo mwana wakukulira mwaluŵiro na kuŵa munthu mulara. Vikulongora kuti mwana wakukura waka yekha kwambura iyo kuchitapo kanthu. Ndipouli, kuti tikure mwauzimu tikwenera kuchitapo kanthu. (1 Kor. 13:11; Heb. 6:1) Kuti tifiske chilato ichi, tikwenera kuŵa paubwezi wakukhora na Yehova. Tikukhumbikwiraso mzimu utuŵa kuti tiŵe na mikhaliro ya Chiuta, kuti tiŵe na maluso ghakovwira, kweniso kuti tinozgekere milimo yithu ya munthazi. (Zinth. 1:5) Yehova wakalenga ŵanthu ŵanalume na ŵanakazi. (Gen. 1:27) Ntchakuwonekerathu kuti ŵanalume na ŵanakazi mathupi ghawo ngakupambana, kweni mbakupambanaso mu vigaŵa vinyake. Mwachiyelezgero, Yehova wakalenga ŵanalume na ŵanakazi kuti ŵafiske milimo yinyake iyo wakaŵalengera, ntheura ŵakukhumbikwira mikhaliro na maluso agho ghangaŵawovwira kuchita milimo yawo.—Gen. 2:18. w23.12 18 ¶1-2