41 When the ten others heard about it, they became indignant at James and John.+ 42 But Jesus called them to him and said to them: “You know that those who appear to be* ruling the nations lord it over them and their great ones wield authority over them.+ 43 This must not be the way among you; but whoever wants to become great among you must be your minister,+ 44 and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of all. 45 For even the Son of man came, not to be ministered to, but to minister+ and to give his life* as a ransom in exchange for many.”+