SETTLING PERSONAL DIFFERENCES

apology: g82 2/22 19

Bible view on retaliation: w78 6/15 9; g74 5/22 27-28; w71 579-580

discussion: uw 134-137; w82 8/15 16-17; w81 9/15 17-18; w80 7/1 28-30; g80 10/22 21-23; w76 28-30; ms 446-448

experience: yb68 142

‘gain your brother’ (Mt 18:15-17): w81 9/15 17; g81 8/22 19; w80 7/1 28-30; g80 10/22 21-23; w72 465-467; w69 561; w67 462-463; w65 298-302

going ‘the extra mile’ (Mt 5:41): g78 2/8 3

how to cope when people irritate us: g81 8/22 17-19

importance of—

a heart-to-heart talk: g72 8/8 3-4

being peace-minded: w80 6/1 24-25; w73 332-335; w66 492

love and empathy: w71 580; w70 389

written record of agreements: g79 3/8 10-11

taking a fellow believer to court: g79 3/8 12; w78 5/1 30; w77 147; w73 703-704; w63 160; w55 126-127

“winning at all costs” can mean losing: g74 7/8 3-4

within the Christian congregation: w85 12/15 5; w81 2/1 31; g79 3/8 12; w78 5/1 29-30; km 10/74 7; w73 332-335; or 155-159; w71 437-438; w68 530-531; w67 310-311; yl 31, 171-173