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Nĩ Ũthũku Kwĩthĩwa na Kyeva?
Ve ĩvinda waaĩthĩwa wĩ mũwau o na ethĩwa no kwa kavinda o kanini? No kwĩthĩwa wavoie mĩtũkĩ ũkethĩa o na nĩwoolilwe nĩ kĩla kyaendeeie. Ĩndĩ kyeva nĩkĩtonya kũkua ĩvinda yĩasa kĩithela. Nthĩnĩ wa ĩvuku yĩtawa Healing a Spouse’s Grieving Heart, Dr. Alan Wolfelt aisye, “Ti ũndũ ũtonyeka ‘kũeka’ kwĩthĩwa na kyeva.” Ĩndĩ aendeee kwasya: “Ĩtina wa ĩvinda yĩana ũndũ mũna, na andũ maũtetheesya, kyeva no kĩoleke.”
Kwa ngelekanyʼo, sũanĩa ĩũlũ wa ũndũ Avalaamu weekie ĩla mũka wakwie. Kwosana na Maandĩko ma Kĩevelania ala maandĩkĩtwe mbeenĩ, “Avalaamu nĩwambĩĩie kũmũmetea Sala, na kũmũĩĩa.” Ndeto “nĩwambĩĩie” yĩonanyʼa kana Avalaamu nĩwakuie ĩvinda e na kyeva nũndũ wa kũkwʼĩĩwa nĩ mũka wake Sala.a Ngelekanyʼo ĩngĩ nĩ ya Yakovo, ũla wakengiwe nginya aĩkĩĩa kana mwana wake, Yosevu, nĩwooaĩtwe nĩ nyamũ mbai. Aĩ na kyeva “matukũ maingĩ,” na andũ ma mũsyĩ wake maemwa nĩ kũmũkiakisya. Ĩtina wa myaka mingĩ, Yakovo nĩwaendeeie kũthĩnĩka nũndũ wa kĩkwʼũ kya Yosevu.—Mwambĩlĩlyo 23:2; 37:34, 35; 42:36; 45:28.
Avalaamu aiĩa ĩtina wa kũkwʼĩĩwa nĩ mũka wake, Sala
O na ũmũnthĩ kwĩthĩawa kũilyĩ oou kwa andũ aingĩ ala methĩawa na kyeva nũndũ wa kũkwʼĩĩwa nĩ andũ manamendete. Kwasũanĩa ngelekanyʼo ii ilĩ.
“Mũemewa, Robert, akwie Matukũ 9, Mwei wa 7, 2008. Mũthenya ũla wakwatiwe nĩ mũisyo wa lelũnĩ wailyĩ o ta mĩthenya ĩla ĩngĩ. O tondũ tweekaa kĩla mũthenya atanamba kũthi wĩanĩ, nĩtwaĩe lĩu wa kwakya, angũna kisi, angumbatĩa, na ambĩa, ‘Nĩngwendete.’ O na kau nĩvavĩtĩte myaka thanthatũ, nĩwʼaa nĩona kyeva. Ndikwona ta ngaeka kwĩthĩwa na kyeva nũndũ wa Rob.”—Gail, ũla wĩ na myaka 60.
“O na kau nĩ na myaka mbee wa 18 kuma nakwʼĩĩwa nĩ kĩveti kyakwa, no nĩkĩlilikanaa na nĩwʼaa nĩ na kyeva. Ĩla noona kĩndũ kyanake, nĩnĩmũlilikanaa na ndyasya kethĩwa eĩ vaa ethĩwa atanĩa kĩndũ kĩu noona.”—Etienne, ũla wĩ myaka 84.
Kwoou o tondũ twoona, ti ũthũku kwĩthĩwa na kyeva na woo ĩla wakwʼĩĩwa. Andũ monanasya kyeva kwa nzĩa syĩ kĩvathũkanyʼo, na kwoou ti ũseo kũsilĩla andũ na kũtwʼa kana maĩle kwĩthĩawa na kyeva ũndũ ũmwe ĩla makwʼĩĩwa. Ĩndĩ o na ũu wĩ o vo, tũyaĩle kwĩtũla mũtĩ ethĩwa twĩona twĩ na kyeva mũno ĩtina wa kũkwʼĩĩwa. Tũtonya ata kũmĩanĩsya na kyeva?
a O nake Isaka, mwana wa Avalaamu, aĩ na kyeva kwa ĩvinda ĩasa. O tondũ vonanĩtwʼe ĩkasetinĩ yĩĩ nthĩnĩ wa kĩlungu kĩla kĩ na kyongo “Ĩthĩwa na Mũĩkĩĩo ta Woo,” Isaka aĩ na kyeva o na ĩtina wa myaka ĩtatũ kuma inyia wake Sala akwʼa.—Mwambĩlĩlyo 24:67.