Nange umbelethi, siza abantwabakho balungiselele iimpendulo ezilingene iimnyakabo. Ngezinye iinkhathi, sifunda ngeendaba zemitjhado namkha zokuziphatha kodwana kungenzeka kube nesigaba sinye namkha ezimbili umntwanakho angaphendula kizo. Godu siza abantwabakho bazwisise ukuthi kubayini bangekhe babakhethe ngaso soke isikhathi nabaphakamisako. Ukubahlathululela lokhu kungabasiza nakukhethwa abanye kunabo. (1 Thim. 6:18) Soke singalungiselela iimpendulo ezidumisa uJehova bezikhuthaze namaKrestu esinawo ebandleni. (IzA. 25:11) Nanyana ngezinye iinkhathi singaveza lokho ekhe saqalana nakho, kufuze sikubalekele ukukhuluma ngathi khulu. (IzA. 27:2; 2 Kor. 10:18) Kunalokho, sizimisele ukuhlala sidzimelela kuJehova, eliZwini lakhe nebantwini bakhe.​—IsAm. 4:11. w23.04 24-25 ¶17-18

Ithando liqakathekile ukuthi sihlale siphapheme besiqaqulukile. (Mat. 22:37-39) Ithando ngoZimu lisisiza sikghodlhelele nasitjhumayelako ngitjho nanyana ukwenza njalo kungasilethela imiraro. (2 Thim. 1:7, 8) Ngebanga lokuthi siyabathanda nalabo abangalotjhi uJehova, siragela phambili sitjhumayela, sifakaza ngomtato, sitlola neencwadi. Asililahli ithemba lokuthi ngelinye ilanga abomakhelwana bethu bazokutjhuguluka bathome ukwenza okulungileko. (Hez. 18:27, 28) Ithando ngabomakhelwana lihlanganisa ukuthanda abafowethu nabodadwethu. Sitjengisa ithando elinjalo ‘ngokuhlala sikhuthazana begodu sakhana.’ (1 Thes. 5:11) Njengamasotja asebenzisanako epini, siyakhuthazana. Angeze salimaza abafowethu nabodadwethu ngamabomu namkha sibuyisele okumbi ngokumbi. (1 Thes. 5:13, 15) Godu sitjengisa ithando ngokuthi sibe nehlonipho kubafowethu abadosa phambili ebandleni.​—1 Thes. 5:12. w23.06 10 ¶6; 11 ¶10-11

Enye indlela esingaqinisa ngayo ukukholwa kwethu kucabangisisa ngesihlengo. Isihlengo siyasiqinisekisa ukuthi iinthembiso zakaZimu zizokuzaliseka. Nasicabangisisa ngokuthi kubayini kwaba nesihlengo nokuthi uJehova udele okungangani, siqinisa ukukholwa kwethu ngokuthi isithembiso sakaZimu sokuphila ngokungapheliko ephasini elingcono sizokuzaliseka. Kubayini sitjho njalo? Khuyini uJehova ayidelako bona kube nesihlengo? UJehova wathumela iNdodanakhe ayithandako, umnganakhe oseduze, ukusuka ezulwini bona ibelethwe ephasini imumuntu onganasono. Nayisephasini, yakghodlhelela ubuhlungu obuhlukahlukeneko. Yatlhaga beyahlongakala kabuhlungu. UJehova wabhadela kabuhlungu! UZimethu onethando bengekhe avumele iNdodanakhe itlhage beyibulawe kabuhlungu bona asinikele ukuphila okungcono kwesikhatjhana. (Jwa. 3:16; 1 Pit. 1:18, 19) Ngebanga lokuthi uJehova unikele ngeNdodanakhe eligugu, uzokwenza isiqinisekiso sokuthi siphila ngokungapheliko ephasini elitjha. w23.04 27 ¶8-9