NjengoBabethu onethando, uJehova akafuni ukusibona sizwa ubuhlungu. (Isa. 63:9) Nanyana kunjalo, akayikhandeli yoke imiraro esiqalana nayo, engafaniswa nemilambo namkha amalangabi womlilo. (Isa. 43:2) Nanyana kunjalo, usithembisa ukuthi uzosisiza “sikhambe hlangana” nazo. Nanyana ngiziphi iinlingo esiqalana nazo nje, uzokuqinisekisa ukuthi azisenzi sibhalelwe kumlotjha. Godu uJehova usinikela umoyakhe ocwengileko onamandla osisiza sikghodlhelele. (Luk. 11:13; Flp. 4:13) Ngebanga lalokho, singaqiniseka ukuthi sizokuhlala sinakho koke esikutlhogako bona sikghodlhelele begodu sihlale sithembekile kuye. UJehova ulindele bona simthembe. (Heb. 11:6) Ngezinye iinkhathi iintjhijilo zethu zingabonakala zibudisi khulu. Kungenzeka sithome ukuzaza ukuthi uJehova uzosisiza. Kodwana iBhayibheli lisiqinisekisa ukuthi ngamandla kaZimu “singakhwela iboda.” (Rhu. 18:29) Kunokobana sivumele ukuzaza okunjalo kukhule, kufuze sithandaze ngokukholwa, sibe nethemba lokuthi uJehova uzoyiphendula imithandazwethu.​—Jak. 1:6, 7. w23.11 22 ¶8-9

Qala bona ithando lihlathululwa kuhle kangangani! Amezwi la asikhuthazo ebantwini abatjhadileko: Ningathandana kwamambala. Abantu abatjhadileko kufuze benze umzamo nabazakuhlala bathandana ukuphila kwabo koke. Ukufanekisa, umlilo ungaragela phambili uvutha nange kunomuntu owukhwezelako. Nange kunganamuntu owukhwezelako ungacima. Ngokufanako, ithando elihlangana nendoda nomfazi lingahlala liqinile nange bahlala baqinisa ubuhlobo babo. Ngezinye iinkhathi abatjhadikazi bangabona ngasuthi ithando labo liyaphola khulukhulu lokha nabaqalene neentjhijilo zeemali, ukugula namkha ukugandeleleka kokukhulisa abantwana. Bona benze “ilangabi lakaJah” liragele phambili livutha, bobabili indoda nomkayo kufuze basebenzele ukuba nobuhlobo obuqinileko noJehova. w23.05 20-21 ¶1-3

Bona sibe nesibindi, khuyini ekufuze siyenze? Ababelethi bethu bangasikhuthaza ukuthi sibe nesibindi kodwana indaba yokuba nesibindi ayikhambi ngefuzo. Ukuba nesibindi kufana nokufunda ikghono elitjha. Enye indlela yokuba sikghwari, kuqalisisa lokho umuntu ofundisako akwenzako bese ulingisa isibonelo sakhe. Ngendlela efanako, sifunda ukuba nesibindi ngokuqalisisa labo abanesibindi bese silingise isibonelo sabo. NjengoDanyela, kufuze silazi kuhle iliZwi lakaZimu. Kufuze sibe netjhebiswano eliseduze noJehova ngokukhuluma naye ngokutjhaphulukileko qobe. Kufuze sithembele kuJehova siqiniseke ukuthi uzosisekela. Lokha ukukholwa kwethu nakulingwako sizokuba nesibindi. Abantu abanesibindi kanengi bayahlonitjhwa. Bangasiza nabanye ukuthi bazi uJehova. Nathi sinamabanga amahle wokuthi sibe nesibindi. w23.08 2 ¶2; 4 ¶8-9