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periyavargalin valikaattudhalai madhippadhu

pillaigalukku yaarudaiya valikaattudhal thēvai?

pillaigalukku periyavargalin aalōsanaigalum butthimadhigalum thēvai. andha poruppai seiya thagundhavargal petrōrgalaagiya nīngaldhaan. sollappōnaal, appadi seivadhu ungal kadamai. aanaal, anubavamulla matravargalkūda ungal pillaigalukku aalōsanaigal tharalaam.

periyavargalin valikaattudhal ēn thēvai?

niraiya naadugalil, pillaigal periyavargalōdu adhiga nēram selaviduvadhillai. idhai konjam gavaniyungal:

pillaigal vīttil iruppadhaivida adhiga nēram palliyildhaan irukkiraargal. palliyil aasiriyargalaiyum matravargalaiyumvida pillaigaldhaan adhigam.
sila vīdugalil appaa, ammaa irandu pērumē vēlaikku pōgiraargal. adhanaal, pillaigal skūl mudindhu varumpōdhu vīttil yaarum iruppadhillai.
oru aaraaichiyinpadi, amerikkaavil 8-12 vayadhilulla pillaigal ovvoru naalum saraasariyaaga aaru maninēram elektraanik saadhanangalilēyē mūlgiyirukkiraargal.a

“pillaigal ippōdhellaam ammaa, appaa, aasiriyargal ena yaaridamum aalōsanai kētpadhillai, . . . matra pillaigalidamdhaan kētkiraargal” endru oru butthagam (Hold On to Your Kids) solgiradhu.

valikaattuvadhu eppadi?

ungal pillaigalōdu nēram selavidungal.

baibil aalōsanai: “nadakka vēndiya valiyil nadakka pillaiyai palakku. vayadhaanaalum avan adhaivittu vilaga maattaan.”—nīdhimoligal 22:6.

udhavikkaaga pillaigal mudhalil pōvadhu petrōridamdhaan. sollappōnaal, pillaigal tīnēj paruvatthai ettumpōdhukūda, matra pillaigalin aalōsanaiyaivida thangal petrōrin aalōsanaiyai adhigamaaga madhippaargal endru nibunargal solgiraargal. “pillaigal valarndhu aalaagumvarai avargaludaiya sindhanaigalaiyum seyalgalaiyum vadivamaippadhu mukkiyamaaga petrōrgaldhaan” endru daaktar laarans sdainper oru butthagatthil (You and Your Adolescent) eludhiyirukkiraar. “ungal karutthugalai pillaigal eppōdhumē ētrukkolvaargal endru solla mudiyaadhudhaan. aanaal, nīngal enna ninaikkirīrgal endru therindhukolla avargal virumbugiraargal, nīngal solvadhaiyum gavanikkiraargal. idhai avargal veliyil kaattikkollavillai endraalum idhudhaan unmai” endrum avar eludhiyirukkiraar.

pillaigal iyalbaagavē ungalidamdhaan udhaviyai edhirpaarkkiraargal enbadhaal, ellaa vidhatthilum avargalukku valikaatta muyarchi edungal. avargalōdu nēram selavidungal. nīngal enna ninaikkirīrgal... ungalai porutthavaraikkum edhu mukkiyam... vaalkkaiyil nīngal enna paadangalai katrukkondīrgal... pōndra vishayangalai avargalidam sollungal.

innoru valikaattiyai thēdi kodungal.

baibil aalōsanai: “nyaanamullavargalōdu nadakkiravan nyaanamadaivaan.”—nīdhimoligal 13:20.

yaaraavadhu oruvar ungal pillaikku nalla valikaattiyaaga irukka mudiyumendru ninaikkirīrgalaa? appadiyendraal, ungal pillaiyōdu nēram selavidumpadi ēn avaridam kētka kūdaadhu? adharkaaga, ungal pillaiyai valarkkum poruppai ini avarē seidhuviduvaar endru nīngal ninaitthuvida kūdaadhu. nīngal tharum payirchiyōdu sērtthu avarudaiya udhaviyum pillaikku prayōjanamaaga irukkum. aanaal, avar ungal pillaikku endha kedudhalum seiyaadha nambagamaana oruvaraaga irukka vēndum. baibilil thīmōtthēyu enbavarin udhaaranam kodukkappattirukkiradhu. avar valarndha piragukūda, appōsthalan pavuludaiya natpinaal adhiga nanmai adaindhaar. adhēpōl, pavulum thīmōtthēyuvin natpinaal nanmai adaindhaar.—pilippiyar 2:20, 22.

indrellaam kūttukkudumbangalai paarppadhē abūrvamaaga irukkiradhu. thaatthaa, paatti, maamaa, atthai pōndra sondhabandhangal vēroru ūrilkūda vaalalaam. ungal kudumbatthilum idhē sūlnilaidhaanaa? appadiyendraal, ungal pillai endha gunangalai valartthukkolla vēndumendru ninaikkirīrgalō andha gunangalai kaattugira matravargalōdu palaga avanukku vaaippugalai uruvaakki kodungal.

a andha aaraaichiyinpadi, tīnējargal dhinamum saraasariyaaga onbadhu maninēram elektraanik saadhanangalil mūlgiyirukkiraargal. skūlil padikkumpōdhum vīttil hōmvark seiyumpōdhum avargal intarnettai payanpadutthum nēram indha pullivivarangalil sērkkappadavillai.

engal anubavam . . .

“silasamayam naan edhaiyaavadhu mummuramaa senjittu irukkarappō en ponnu enkitta pēsanumnu solvaa. udanē vēlaiya appadiyē pōttuttu ava solradha kētpēn. silasamayam, rendu mūnu nimisham mattum veyit panna solvēn. appatthaan, ava solradha gavanam sidharaama kētka mudiyum. en manaiviyum naanum avalukku nalla udhaaranamaa irukka muyarchi pannuvōm. appatthaan, avalukku katthukkodukkaradha ellaam naangalum seiyarōngaradha avalaala paarkka mudiyum.”—dēvid.

“enga ponnu pirandhappō, avala gavanichukkaradhukkaaga naan vēlaiya vittudanumnu en kanavarum naanum mudivu senjōm. andha mudiva edutthadhukkaaga naan varutthappattadhē illa. mudinja alavukku namma pillainga kūdavē irukkuradhu romba mukkiyam. appatthaan avangalukku thēvaiyaana aalōsanai, arivuraiyellaam kodutthu, nallapadiyaa valarkka mudiyum. adhumattumilla, pillainga kūdavē irundhaatthaan avangamēla namakku evlō akkarai irukkunnu kaatta mudiyum.”—līsaa.

periyavargalōdu nēram selaviduvadhu

“en pillainga periyavangalōda niraiya nēram selavu senjaanga. adhuvum, vitthiyaasa vitthiyaasamaanavangalōda palagunaanga. vaalkkaiya patthi matthavangalōda anubavangalla irundhu katthukka adhu avangalukku udhaviyaa irundhuchu. udhaaranatthukku, ennōda paattiyōda kadhaiyai avangakitta kēttu therinjuppaanga. paatti chinna vayasula irundhappō avanga vītladhaan mudhal mudhalla karant saplai kidaichudhaam. laitta pōdaradhayum aaf pandradhayum paarkkaradhukkaagavē akkampakkatthula irundha ellaarum avanga samaiyalkattukku vandhu ninnuttu iruppaangalaam. indha kadhaiya kēttappō en pillaingalukku aachariyamaa irundhuchu. paatti kaalatthula vaalkkai evvalavu vitthiyaasamaa irundhudhunnu therinjukittaanga. adhanaala, paattimēlayum vayasaanavanga ellaarmēlayum avangalukku madhippum mariyaadhaiyum vandhuchu. pillainga mattha pillaingalōda nēram selavidaradhavida periyavangalōda adhiga nēram selavu senjaangannaa, niraiya vishayangala katthuppaanga.”—maraandaa.