nalla olukkangalai katrukkolvadhu

nalla olukkangal endraal enna?

nalla olukkangalai kadaippidikkum oruvar, sari edhu thavaru edhu enbadhai thelivaaga purindhu vaitthiruppaar. appōdhaikku edhu sariyendru thōndrugiradhō adhanpadi nadakkaamal, kurippitta nerimuraigalai eppōdhum kadaippidippaar, adhuvum matravargal paarkkaadha samayangalilkūda!

nalla olukkangal ēn mukkiyam?

pillaigal kētkum isai, avargal paarkkum sinimaa, tivi nigalchigal ena ellaamē nalladhai kettadhaagavum kettadhai nalladhaagavum sittharikkindrana. avargalōdu padikkum pillaigalum idhaitthaan seigiraargal. adhanaal, thangalukku katruttharappadum olukkanerigal sariyaanavaidhaanaa endra sandhēgam pillaigalukku vandhuvidugiradhu.

mukkiyamaaga, tīnēj paruvatthil idhu oru periya prachinai. andha paruvatthil, “ūr ulagatthukku pidittha maadhiri nadandhukolla vēndumendrudhaan nanbargalum matravargalum varpurutthuvaargal enbadhai pillaigal purindhukolla vēndum. nanbargalukku pidikkaavittaalkūda, sariyaanadhai seiya avargal thīrmaanamaaga irukka vēndum” endru oru butthagam (Beyond the Big Talk) solgiradhu. appadiyendraal, pillaigal tīnēj paruvatthai ettuvadharku munbē petrōr idhaiyellaam katrukkodukka vēndum.

nalla olukkangalai katrukkoduppadhu eppadi?

sari edhu, thavaru edhu endru puriyavaiyungal.

baibil aalōsanai: ‘mudhirchiyullavargal . . . sari edhu, thavaru edhu enbadhai piritthu paarkka thangaludaiya pagutthariyum thirangalai payanpadutthi payitruvitthirukkiraargal.’—ebireyar 5:14.

• sari edhu, thavaru edhu endru nēradiyaaga sollungal. dhinamum nadakkum vishayangalai suttikkaatti, “nērmaiyaa nadakkaradhunnaa idhudhaan; idhu nērmai illa,” “visuvaasamaa nadakkaradhunnaa idhudhaan; idhu visuvaasam illa,” “anbaa nadakkaradhunnaa idhudhaan; idhu anbu illa” endrellaam sollungal. kaalappōkkil, eppadiyellaam nadandhukolla vēndum, eppadiyellaam nadandhukolla kūdaadhu enbadhai ungal pillaiyaal purindhukolla mudiyum.

• kaaranangalai vilakkungal. “ēn nērmaiyaa irukkuradhu nalladhunnu ninaikkira? poi sonnaa ēn namma frends nammalavittu pirinjiduvaanga? thiruduradhu ēn thappu?” pōndra kēlvigalai kēlungal. kaaranangalai edutthu solvadhan mūlam, nalladhu kettadhai piritthu paarkkum thiranaiyum nalla manasaatchiyaiyum valartthukkolla udhavungal.

• nanmaigalai valiyurutthungal. “nī nērmaiyaa nadandhukittaa matthavanga unnai nambuvaanga,” “nī anbaa nadandhukittaa ellaarum unkitta palaga aasaippaduvaanga” endrellaam nīngal sollalaam.

nalla olukkangalai ungal kudumbatthin adaiyaalamaakkungal.

baibil aalōsanai: “nīngal eppadippattavargal enbadhai therindhukolla ungalaiyē eppōdhum aaraaindhu paarungal.”—2 korindhiyar 13:5.

• kudumbatthil irukkum ellaarumē nalla olukkangalai pinpatra vēndum. appōdhudhaan, ungalaal ippadiyellaam nērmaiyaaga solla mudiyum:

  • “namma kudumbatthula yaarumē poi solla maattōm.”

  • “matthavangala adikkara palakkamum kōbatthula katthura palakkamum namakku illa.”

  • “matthavanga manasa kashtappadutthura maadhiri naama pēsa maattōm.”

nīngal ippadi seiyumpōdhu, pillaigal nalla olukkangalai thaangal pinpatra vēndiya sattangalaaga paarkkaamal, ungal kudumbatthin adaiyaalamaaga paarppaargal.

• kudumbamaaga nīngal kadaippidikkum olukkanerigalai patri ungal pillaiyidam adikkadi pēsungal. dhinamum nadakkum vishayangalaiyē udhaaranamaaga solli avanukku katrukkodungal. oruvēlai, nīngal edhirpaarkkum olukkanerigal, tiviyilirundhō palliyilirundhō ungal pillai therindhukollum vishayangalilirundhu eppadi vitthiyaasamaaga irukkindrana endru nīngal vilakkalaam. adhan piragu, “nī enna senjiruppa?” “naama enna senjiruppōm?” endrellaam kēlungal.

thīrmaanamaaga irukka udhavungal.

baibil aalōsanai: “nalla manasaatchiyōdu irungal.”—1 pēdhuru 3:16.

• nalladhu seiyumpōdhu paaraattungal. ungal pillai nalla vidhamaaga nadandhukollumpōdhu, adhai kurippaaga solli paaraattungal. udhaaranatthukku, “nī nērmaiyaa nadandhukitta. adhanaala unnai nenachaa perumai irukku” endru sollungal. ēdhaavadhu thappu seidhuvittadhaaga ungal pillai sollumpōdhu, avanai thirutthuvadharku munbu, thappai nērmaiyaaga otthukkondadharkaaga manadhaara paaraattungal.

• kettadhu seiyumpōdhu thirutthungal. ungal pillaigal enna seidhaalum adharku avargaldhaan poruppu enbadhai puriya vaiyungal. avargal enna thappu seidhaargal enbadhaiyum, kudumbatthil edhirpaarkkappadum olukkanerigalukku adhu eppadi nērmaaraaga irukkiradhu enbadhaiyum edutthu sollungal. pillaigalai kanditthaal avargal manam kashtappadum endru petrōrgal silar ninaikkiraargal. aanaal, pillaigal seiyum thavarugalai suttikkaattinaaldhaan avargal nalla manasaatchiyai valartthukkolvaargal, kettadhai seiyaamalum iruppaargal.