“enakku naanē kuli vettikkondu irundhēn”

en kadandhakaala vaalkkai

naan yegōvaavin saatchigalōdu baibilai padikka aarambittha konja kaalatthil, “nī unmaiyilēyē kadavula patthi therinjukkanumnaa yegōvaavin saatchigalōda padikkuradha vittudaadha” endru oruvar sonnaar. idhai kēttapōdhu enakku aachariyamaaga irundhadhu. ēn endru solvadharku munnaal, ennai patri konjam solgirēn.

el saalvadaaril irukkum kesaalteppekke endra ūril naan pirandhēn. en appaa ammaavukku 15 pillaigal, adhil naan aaraavadhu. sattatthukku kīlppadiyum nērmaiyaana nalla pillaiyaaga ennai valarkka en appaa ammaa muyarchi seidhaargal. adhōdu, liyōnaardō enbavarum innum irandu yegōvaavin saatchigalum avvappōdhu vandhu engalukku baibilai sollikkodutthaargal. aanaal, avargal sonnadhaiyellaam naan kaadhil pōttukkollavē illai. adutthadutthu pala thavaraana mudivugalai edutthēn. 14 vayadhil, en skūl frendsōdu sērndhu kudikka aarambitthēn, bōdhaipporulaiyum edutthukkolla aarambitthēn. avargal ovvoruvaraaga skūlai vittuvittu, oru ravudi gumbalil pōi sērndhaargal. naanum avargalōdu sērndhukondēn. naangal theruvē gadhi endrirundhōm. madhubaanam, bōdhaipporul pōndra ketta palakkangalukku panam thēvaippattadhaal matravargalai miratti panam paritthōm, thirudinōm.

andha ravudi gumbalē en kudumbamaagivittadhu. avargalukku visuvaasamaaga irukka naan kadamaippattiruppadhaaga ninaitthēn. orunaal, bayangara bōdhaiyil irundha ennudaiya frend pakkatthu vīttukkaararōdu sandai pōttu avarai aditthuvittaan. avar eppadiyō ivanai madakkippiditthu, pōlīsai kūppittaar. enakku kōbam thalaikkērivittadhu. avar en frendai vittuvida vēndum enbadharkaaga, avarudaiya kaarai oru ganamaana thadiyaal aditthu norukka aarambitthēn. adhai niruttha solli avar kenjiyapōdhum, naan kētkavē illai. ovvoru kannaadiyaaga aditthu norukki kaarai chinnaapinnamaakkinēn.

enakku 18 vayadhu irukkumpōdhu, engal gumbalukkum pōlīsukkum mōdhal ērpattadhu. naangalē thayaarittha oru vedigundai naan eriyappōgum samayatthil, adhu en kaiyilēyē veditthuvittadhu. eppadiyendru enakkē theriyavillai. en kai sidharippōnadhai paartthadhudhaan enakku nyaabagam irukkiradhu, adhan piragu naan mayangi vilundhuvittēn. aaspatthiriyil mayakkam thelindhapōdhudhaan, ennudaiya valadhu kai thundikkappattirundhadhai paartthēn. adhumattumalla, ennudaiya valadhu kaadhu kētkavillai, valadhu kannum kittatthatta kurudaagiyirundhadhu.

itthanai nadandha piragum, aaspatthiriyilirundhu dischaarj aanavudan nēraaga ennudaiya gumbalidam pōnēn. aanaal, konja naalil pōlīs ennai kaidhu seidhu, jeyilil pōttaargal. angē en ravudi gumbalōdu innum nerukkamaagivittēn. kaalaiyil tifan saappittuvittu maarihūvaanaavai pugaippadhilirundhu, raatthiri thūngappōvadhuvarai ellaavatraiyum naangal sērndhudhaan seidhōm.

baibil en vaalkkaiyai maatriya vidham

naan jeyilil irundhapōdhu, liyōnaardō ennai sandhitthaar. naangal pēsikkondirundhapōdhu, en valadhu kaiyil naan pachai kutthiyirundhadhai kaatti, “indha mūnu adaiyaalangalukkum enna artthamnu theriyumaa?” endru kēttaar. “theriyaama enna! seks, bōdhaipporul, raak-and-rōl isai” endru naan sonnēn. adharku avar, “ennai porutthavaraikkum idhōda arttham aaspatthiri, jeyil, saavu. nī ērkenavē aaspatthiriyila irundha. ippa jeyalilla irukka. adutthadhu ennanu unakkē theriyum” endru sonnaar.

adhai kēttu naan aadippōivittēn. avar sonnadhu saridhaan. ennudaiya vaalkkaimuraiyaal enakku naanē kuli vettikkondu irundhēn. aanaal, enakku baibilai sollikkoduppadhaaga liyōnaardō sonnaar. naan otthukkondēn. baibililirundhu naan katrukkonda vishayangal en vaalkkaiyai maatruvadharku ennai thūndina. udhaaranatthukku, “ketta sagavaasam nalla olukkanerigalai kedutthuvidum” endru baibil solgiradhu. (1 korindhiyar 15:33, adikkurippu) adhanaal, mudhalvēlaiyaaga naan pudhiya nanbargalai kandupidikka vēndum endru purindhukondēn. ennudaiya gumbaludaiya kūttangalukku pōgaamal, jeyilukkul yegōvaavin saatchigal nadatthiya kūttangalukku pōga aarambitthēn. angē aandres endra kaidhiyai paartthēn. avar jeyilukkullēyē nyaanasnaanam edutthu yegōvaavin saatchiyaaga aagiyirundhaar. avarōdu sērndhu kaalaiyil tifan saappida ennai kūppittaar. andrilirundhu, kaalaiyil maarihūvaanaa pugaippadhai nirutthivittēn. adharku badhilaaga, aandresum naanum dhinamum kaalaiyil oru baibil vasanatthai patri kalandhupēsinōm.

ennudaiya gumbalil irundhavargal ennidam maatrangalai paartthaargal. orunaal, andha gumbalin thalaivargalil oruvar ennidam pēsa vēndumendru sonnaar. naan maara ninaippadhai patri sonnaal enna seivaarō endru bayamaaga irundhadhu. ēnendraal, ravudi gumbalilirundhu vilaguvadhu nadakkaadha kaariyam. aanaal avar, “nī ippellaam namma kūttatthukku varaama yegōvaavin saatchigalōda kūttatthukku pōyittu irukkuradha naanga paartthukkittudhaan irukkōm. nī enna seiyalaamnu ninaichirukka?” endru kēttaar. baibilai thodarndhu paditthu en vaalkkaiyai maatrikkolla virumbuvadhaaga naan sonnēn. naan unmaiyilēyē oru yegōvaavin saatchiyaaga aaga virumbuvadhai kaattinaal, gumbalil iruppavargal ennai edhuvum seiya maattaargal endru avar sonnaar. adhai kēttapōdhu, enakku aachariyamaaga irundhadhu. adhumattumalla, “nī unmaiyilēyē kadavula patthi therinjukkanumnaa yegōvaavin saatchigalōda padikkuradha vittudaadha. ketta vishayangala ellaam inimē nī seiyaadha. vaaltthukkal! nī sariyaana valiyiladhaan pōyittu irukka. yegōvaavin saatchigalaala unakku kandippaa udhava mudiyum. naan amerikkaavula avangalōda baibila padichēn. en kudumbatthula irukkura silarkūda yegōvaavin saatchigaldhaan. bayappadaadha. avangalōda padikkuradha vittudaadha” endru sonnaar. appōdhukūda enakku orupakkam bayamaagatthaan irundhadhu, aanaalum innoru pakkam orē sandhōshamaaga irundhadhu. manasukkul yegōvaavukku nandri sonnēn. kūndilirundhu vidudhalaiyaana paravaipōl unarndhēn. “satthiyatthai therindhukolvīrgal, satthiyam ungalai vidudhalaiyaakkum” endru yēsu sonnadhan arttham appōdhu purindhadhu.​—yōvaan 8:​32.

ennudaiya palaiya nanbargal silar, vēndumendrē enakku bōdhaipporulai kodutthu paartthaargal. silasamayam, ennaal aasaiyai adakka mudiyaamal pōivittadhu. aanaal, adikkadi ūkkamaaga jebam seidha piragu, oruvaliyaaga ennudaiya ketta palakkangalai vittolitthēn.​—sangīdham 51:10, 11.

jeyililirundhu vidudhalaiyaana piragu naan palaiyapadi maarividuvēn endru niraiya pēr ninaitthaargal, aanaal appadi nadakkavillai. adharku badhilaaga, naan adikkadi siraichaalaikku pōi, angirundha kaidhigalidam baibil vishayangalai patri pēsinēn. naan unmaiyilēyē maarivittadhai ennudaiya palaiya nanbargal oruvaliyaaga purindhukondaargal. aanaal, ennudaiya palaiya edhirigal adhai purindhukollavillai.

orunaal naanum innoru sagōdhararum ūliyatthukku pōyirundhōm. thidīrendru, ennai thīrtthukkatta ninaittha andha edhirigal, kaigalil aayudhangalōdu engalai sutrivalaitthaargal. naan gumbalaivittu vilagiya vishayatthai ennudan irundha sagōdharar mariyaadhaiyaagavum, adhēsamayatthil dhairiyamaagavum avargalidam edutthu sonnaar. naan amaidhiyaagavē irukka muyarchi seidhēn. andha aatkal ennai aditthuvittu, marubadiyum andha ēriyaavil kaalvaikka kūdaadhendru mirattivittu anuppivittaargal. baibil unmaiyilēyē en vaalkkaiyai adiyōdu maatriyirundhadhu. naan palaiya aalaaga irundhirundhaal, palikkuppali vaanga muyarchi seidhiruppēn. aanaal, ippōdhu baibilil irukkum indha arivuraikku kīlppadigirēn: “ungalil yaarum thīmaikku thīmai seiyaadhīrgal; ungal matthiyil iruppavargalukku mattumalla, matra ellaarukkum nanmai seiya eppōdhum muyarchi seiyungal.”—1 thesalōnikkēyar 5:15.

naan yegōvaavin saatchiyaaga maariya samayatthilirundhu, nērmaiyaaga vaala muyarchi seidhirukkirēn. adhu avvalavu sulabamaaga irukkavillai. aanaalum, yegōvaavin udhaviyōdum, baibilin arivuraigalōdum, pudhiya nanbargalin aadharavōdum ennaal appadi vaala mudindhirukkiradhu. naan orupōdhum palaiya vaalkkaikku thirumba maattēn.​—2 pēdhuru 2:​22.

enakku kidaittha nanmaigal

munbu, naan bayangara kōbakkaaranaaga irundhēn, edharkedutthaalum kutthu, vettu endrirundhēn. naan mattum baibilai padikkaamal pōyirundhaal indru uyirōdu irundhirukkavē maattēn! baibil ennai adiyōdu maatrivittadhu. ennudaiya ketta palakkangalai naan vittuvittēn. ennudaiya munnaal edhirigalōdu samaadhaanamaaga irukka katrukkondēn. (lūkkaa 6:27) ippōdhu, nalla gunangalai valartthukkolla udhavum nanbargal enakku kidaitthirukkiraargal. (nīdhimoligal 13:20) kadavulukku sēvai seivadhaal, artthamulla oru vaalkkai vaalgirēn. naan seidha ketta kaariyangalaiyellaam avar mannikka thayaaraaga irundhaar. ippōdhu naan sandhōshamaaga vaalgirēn.—ēsaayaa 1:18.

2006-il, kalyaanam aagaadhavargalukku nadatthappadum oru visēsha payirchi palliyil kalandhukondēn. sila varushangalukku piragu, kalyaanam seidhukondēn. engalukku ippōdhu oru magal irukkiraal. enakku udhavi seidha baibil aalōsanaigalai matravargalukku katrukkodukka ippōdhu niraiya nēram selavalikkirēn. sabaiyil oru mūpparaagavum sēvai seigirēn. chinna vayadhil naan seidha thavarugalai seiyaamal irukka sabaiyilirukkum ilainyargalukku udhavi seigirēn. ippōdhu enakku naanē kuli vettikkolvadharku badhilaaga, baibilil kadavul vaakkurudhi kodutthirukkum mudivillaadha vaalkkaiyai petrukkolla ulaikkirēn.