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matravargalukku mariyaadhai kodungal
“thangatthaiyum velliyaiyum sambaadhippadhaivida mariyaadhaiyai sambaadhippadhu sirandhadhu.”—nīdhi. 22:1.
enna katrukkolvōm?
naam ēn matravargalukku mariyaadhai kodukka vēndum endrum, kashtamaana sūlnilaiyilum adhai eppadi kodukkalaam endrum katrukkolvōm.
1. mariyaadhai kidaikkumpōdhu namakku ēn romba sandhōshamaaga irukkiradhu? (nīdhimoligal 22:1)
matravargal ungalukku mariyaadhai kodukkumpōdhu ungalukku eppadi irukkum? nichayam ungalukku piditthirukkum. ēnendraal, manidhargal podhuvaagavē matravargal thangalai madhikka vēndum endru edhirpaarppaargal. adhudhaan iyalbu! adhanaaldhaan, matravargal nammai madhikkumpōdhu namakku sandhōshamaaga irukkiradhu. “thangatthaiyum velliyaiyum sambaadhippadhaivida mariyaadhaiyai sambaadhippadhu sirandhadhu” endru baibil solvadhu evvalavu unmai!—nīdhimoligal 22:1-ai vaasiyungal.
2-3. mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu silasamayam namakku ēn kashtamaaga irukkalaam, indha katturaiyil edhai patri paarppōm?
2 matravargalukku mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu silasamayangalil namakku kashtamaaga irukkalaam. matravargaludaiya thavarugal nam kannil paduvadhu adharku oru kaaranamaaga irukkalaam. nammai sutri iruppavargal mariyaadhai illaamal nadappadhu innoru kaaranamaaga irukkalaam. eppadiyirundhaalum sari, naam avargalai pōl irukkavē kūdaadhu. ēnendraal, “ellaa vidhamaana aatkalukkum” naam madhippu kodukka vēndum endru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar.—1 pē. 2:17.
3 matravargalukku mariyaadhai koduppadhu endraal enna enbadhai patri indha katturaiyil paarppōm. adhōdu, (1) kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku, (2) sagōdhara sagōdharigalukku, (3) satthiyatthil illaadhavargalukku naam eppadi mariyaadhai kaattalaam, adhuvum kashtamaana samayangalil eppadi kaattalaam enbadhai patriyum paarppōm.
mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu endraal enna?
4. oruvarmēl mariyaadhai vaitthiruppadhai naam eppadi kaattalaam?
4 oruvarmēl naam mariyaadhai vaitthiruppadhai eppadi kaattalaam? avarai patri naam yōsikkira vidhatthilum avaridam nadandhukolgira vidhatthilum kaattalaam. oruvaridam ēdhaavadhu nalla gunangal irukkumpōdhu... avar ēdhaavadhu nalla vishayangal seiyumpōdhu... avarukku adhigaaram irukkumpōdhu... avarai naam mariyaadhaiyōdu nadatthuvōm. aanaal, andha mariyaadhai unmaiyilēyē nam manadhil irundhu vara vēndum; adhudhaan mukkiyam.—mat. 15:8.
5. matravargalukku naam mariyaadhai kaattuvadharku mukkiyamaana kaaranam enna?
5 naam matravargalai mariyaadhaiyōdu nadattha vēndum endru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar. udhaaranatthukku, “adhigaaratthil irukkiravargalukku” naam mariyaadhai kodukka vēndum endru avar solliyirukkiraar. (rō. 13:1, 7) oruvēlai silar, ‘matravargalukku mariyaadhai koduppadhu enakku ondrum prachinai illai. aanaal, adharku ētra maadhiri avargal nadandhukolla vēndum’ endru sollalaam. ippadi yōsippadhu sariyaa? yegōvaavudaiya ūliyargalaaga naam appadi yōsikka kūdaadhu. matravargal nammidam eppadi nadandhukolgiraargal enbadhai porutthu avargalukku mariyaadhai kodukkalaamaa vēndaamaa enbadhai naam mudivu seiya kūdaadhu. matravargalukku naam mariyaadhai koduppadharku oru mukkiyamaana kaaranam: yegōvaavai naam nēsikkirōm, avarai piriyappaduttha ninaikkirōm.—yōsu. 4:14; 1 pē. 3:15.
6. namakku mariyaadhai kodukkaadha oruvarukku nammaal mariyaadhai kodukka mudiyumaa? vilakkungal. ( padatthaiyum paarungal.)
6 ‘enakku mariyaadhai kodukkaadha oruvarukku ennaal eppadi mariyaadhai kodukka mudiyum?’ endru silar yōsikkalaam. aanaal, appadippattavargalukkum nammaal mariyaadhai kodukka mudiyum. sila udhaaranangalai paarkkalaam. savul raajaa, thannudaiya magan yōnatthaanai ellaarukkum munbaaga asingappadutthinaar. (1 saa. 20:30-34) irundhaalum, savulukku yōnatthaan mariyaadhai kodutthaar. savul saagumvarai, pōril avarukku aadharavu kodutthaar; avarukku pakkabalamaaga irundhaar. (yaath. 20:12; 2 saa. 1:23) thalaimai guru ēli, annaal kudibōdhaiyil ularuvadhaaga sonnaar. (1 saa. 1:12-14) irundhaalum, ēliyidam annaal mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsinaar. itthanaikkum, oru appaavaagavum thalaimai guruvaagavum avar than poruppugalai sariyaaga seiyavillai enbadhu isravēl mulukka therindhirundhadhu. aanaalum annaal avaridam mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsinaar. (1 saa. 1:15-18; 2:22-24) atthēnē nagara aangal appōsthalan pavulai “ularuvaayan” endru solli avamaanappadutthinaargal. (ap. 17:18) irundhaalum, pavul avargalidam mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsinaar. (ap. 17:22) indha udhaaranangal edhai kaattugindrana? yegōvaamēl irukkum aalamaana anbum avarudaiya manadhai kashtappaduttha kūdaadhu endra bayamum namakku irundhaal, naam matravargalukku mariyaadhai koduppōm. sulabamaaga irukkumpōdhu mattumalla, kashtamaaga irukkumpōdhukūda mariyaadhai koduppōm. sari, yaarukkellaam naam mariyaadhai kodukka vēndum, ēn avargalukku mariyaadhai kodukka vēndum enbadhai patri ippōdhu paarkkalaam.
thannudaiya appaavaana savul raajaa thannai asingappadutthinaalum, yōnatthaan thodarndhu avarukku aadharavu kodutthaar, pakkabalamaaga irundhaar (paaraa 6)
kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku...
7. kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku mariyaadhai koduppadhu namakku ēn kashtamaaga irukkalaam?
7 ēn kashtam? kudumbatthil irukkiravargalōdudhaan naam adhiga nēram selavu seigirōm. adhanaal, avargaludaiya balam, balavīnam ena ellaamē namakku theriyum. kudumbatthil irukkira yaarukkaavadhu udalnala prachinai irukkalaam, avargalai gavanitthukkolvadhu namakku kashtamaaga irukkalaam. kudumbatthil irukkira vēru silarukku, alavukku adhigamaaga kavalaippadum prachinai irukkalaam. ippadippatta sūlnilaigalil mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu savaalaaga irukkalaam. silar, manadhai kashtappadutthum vidhatthil pēsalaam, alladhu nadandhukollalaam. silar, kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku mariyaadhai kodukkaadhadhaal, samaadhaana sōlaiyaaga irukka vēndiya vīttai pōrkkalamaaga maatrividalaam. adhanaal, vīttil otrumaiyē illaamal pōividalaam. ippadi yōsitthu paarungal: udalil oru nōi vandhuvittaal, mulu udalumē sariyaaga seyalpada mudiyaamal pōividum. adhēpōl, kudumbatthil mariyaadhai illaamal pōnaal, kudumbam otrumaiyaaga seyalpada mudiyaadhu. oruvēlai, udalil vandha nōyai nammaal muluvadhumaaga gunappaduttha mudiyaamal pōgalaam. aanaal, kudumbatthil irukkum mariyaadhai illaadha sūlalai nammaal sariseiya mudiyum, kudumba uravugalai balappadutthikkollavum mudiyum.
8. kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu ēn romba mukkiyam? (1 thīmōtthēyu 5:4, 8)
8 ēn kaatta vēndum? (1 thīmōtthēyu 5:4, 8-ai vaasiyungal.) thīmōtthēyuvukku pavul eludhiya mudhal kadidhatthil, kudumbatthil irukkira ovvoruvarum, matravargaludaiya thēvaigalai gavanitthukkolla vēndum endru sonnaar. appadi gavanitthukkollumpōdhu naam avargalukku mariyaadhai kaattugirōm. aanaal, adhai verum kadamaikkaaga alla, ‘kadavulbakthiyaal’ thūndappattu seiya vēndum. appadiyendraal, kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku mariyaadhai koduppadhu nam vanakkatthin oru paagam. kudumbam endra ērpaattai aarambitthu vaitthadhē yegōvaadhaan. (ebē. 3:14, 15) adhanaal, nam kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku naam mariyaadhai kaattumpōdhu, naam yegōvaavukkē mariyaadhai kaattugirōm!
9. kanavanum manaiviyum oruvarukku oruvar eppadi mariyaadhai kaattalaam? (padangalaiyum paarungal.)
9 eppadi kaattuvadhu? manaivikku mariyaadhai kodukkum oru kanavar, than manaivi thanakku thangamaanaval enbadhai kaattuvaar—matravargalukku munbaaga mattumalla thaniyaaga irukkumpōdhum kaattuvaar. (nīdhi. 31:28; 1 pē. 3:7) manaiviyai avar orupōdhum adikka maattaar, tharakkuraivaaga pēsa maattaar, edharkumē laayakkillai endru unara vaikka maattaar. arjentinaavil irukkira ēriyala endra sagōdharar solgiraar: “en manaivikku udambu mudiyaadhadhaal, ennai kaayappadutthugira maadhiri edhaiyaavadhu silasamayangalil sollividuvaal. andha maadhiri samayangalil, aval unmaiyilēyē appadi yōsikkavillai enbadhai enakku naanē nyaabagappadutthikkolvēn. kashtamaaga irukkum samayatthil 1 korindhiyar 13:5-ai yōsitthu paarppēn. avalidam tharakkuraivaaga pēsaamal eppōdhum mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsa andha vasanam enakku udhavugiradhu.” (nīdhi. 19:11) kanavarmēl mariyaadhai vaitthirukkum oru manaivi, avarai patri matravargalidam pēsumpōdhu nalla vishayangalai solluvaar. (ebē. 5:33) avarai kēli-kindal seiyavō ēlanamaaga pēsavō maattaal, kēvalappadutthum vidhatthil pattappeyar vaitthu kūppida maattaal. ēnendraal, appadi seivadhu kalyaana vaalkkaikku ulai vaitthuvidum enbadhai therindhu vaitthiruppaal. (nīdhi. 14:1) itthaaliyil irukkira oru sagōdhariyin kanavar alavukku adhigamaaga kavalaippaduvaar. andha sagōdhari solgiraar: “silasamayatthil en kanavar thēvaiyillaamal kavalaippadugira maadhiri enakku thōndrum. munbellaam adhu enakku erichalaaga irukkum. avaridam mariyaadhaiyillaamal pēsividuvēn; adhai en mugatthilum kaattividuvēn. aanaal, mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsum nanbargalōdu palaga palaga ennaiyē naan maatrikkondēn. en kanavarukku innum adhigamaaga mariyaadhai kodukka vēndum endra aasai enakkul vandhirukkiradhu.”
nam kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku mariyaadhai kaattumpōdhu, nam kudumba thalaivaraaga irukkum yegōvaavukkē mariyaadhai kaattugirōm (paaraa 9)
10. pillaigal eppadi appaa-ammaavukku mariyaadhai kaattalaam?
10 pillaigalē, ungal appaa-ammaa sila kattuppaadugalai vaikkumpōdhu adharku kīlppadiyungal. (ebē. 6:1-3) avargalidam mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsungal. (yaath. 21:17) vayadhu aaga aaga avargalukku ungal udhavi adhigamaaga thēvaippadum; ungalaal mudindha ellaavatraiyum seidhu avargalai gavanitthukkollungal. mariyaa endra sagōdhariyin anubavatthai paarkkalaam. mariyaavin appaa oru yegōvaavin saatchi illai. avarukku udambu sariyillaamal pōivittadhu. appōdhu avar kadugaduppaaga nadandhukolla aarambitthaar. indha sūlnilaiyil, avarukku mariyaadhai koduppadhu mariyaavukku kashtamaagivittadhu. mariyaa solgiraar: “naan yegōvaavidam jebam seidhēn. appaamēl irukkira mariyaadhaiyai ilandhuvida kūdaadhu endrum, adhai kaatta udhavi seiyungal endrum jebam seidhēn. appaa-ammaavukku mariyaadhai kaatta vēndum endru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar endraal, nichayam adhai kaattuvadharkum udhavuvaar endru purindhukondēn. nadandhukollum vidhatthai en appaa maatrikkollavillai endraalum, naan avarukku mariyaadhai kodukka vēndum enbadhaiyum purindhukondēn.” kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku eppadippatta balavīnangal irundhaalum sari, avargalukku naam mariyaadhai kaattinaal, kudumba ērpaattai aarambitthu vaittha yegōvaavukku mariyaadhai kaattugirōm.
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11. sagōdhara sagōdharigalukku mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu ēn silasamayam kashtamaaga irukkalaam?
11 ēn kashtam? sagōdhara sagōdharigal baibil solvadhupōl vaalndhaalum, silasamayangalil nammidam anbillaamal nadandhukollalaam. nammai patri thavaraaga yōsikkalaam, alladhu nammai kaduppētthividalaam. oruvēlai, oru sagōdhararmēl namakku “ēdhaavadhu manakkurai” vandhaal avarukku thodarndhu mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu namakku kashtamaagividalaam. (kolō. 3:13) indha sūlnilaiyil edhu namakku udhavum?
12. sagōdhara sagōdharigalukku mariyaadhai koduppadhu ēn mukkiyam? (2 pēdhuru 2:9-12)
12 ēn kaatta vēndum? (2 pēdhuru 2:9-12-ai vaasiyungal.) mudhal nūtraandil irundha sila kristhavargal, “magimaiyaanavargalai,” adhaavadhu kristhava mūppargalai, mariyaadhai illaamal pēsinaargal endru pēdhuru eludhinaar. idhai gavanitthukkondirundha dhēvathūdhargal eppadi nadandhukondaargal? “yegōvaamēl vaitthirukkum mariyaadhaiyin kaaranamaaga” andha mōsamaanavargalai patri avargal kadumaiyaaga pēsavillai. konjam yōsitthu paarungal: paribūranamaaga irundha dhēvathūdhargalē andha mōsamaana aatkalai patri oru vaartthaikkūda thavaraaga pēsavillai! yegōvaavē avargalukku dhandanai kodukkattum, avargalai nyaayanthīrkkattum endru vittuvittaargal. (rō. 14:10-12; yūdhaa 9-ai oppidungal.) namakku enna paadam? nammai edhirkkiravargalaiyē naam mariyaadhai illaamal nadattha kūdaadhu endraal, sagōdhara sagōdharigalai mattum eppadi mariyaadhai illaamal nadattha mudiyum? avargalukku naam madhippu koduppadhil ‘mundhikkolla’ vēndum. (rō. 12:10) ippadi seiyumpōdhu, naam yegōvaavai madhikkirōm endru kaattugirōm.
13-14. sabaiyil irukkiravargalukku naam eppadi mariyaadhai kaattalaam? vilakkungal. (padangalaiyum paarungal.)
13 eppadi kaattuvadhu? mūppargalē, sabaiyil irukkiravargalukku katrukkodukkumpōdhu adhai anbaaga seiyungal. (pilē. 8, 9) aalōsanai kodukkumpōdhum adhai anbaaga kodungal, erichalaaga irukkumpōdhu adhai kodukkaadhīrgal. sagōdharigalē, sabaiyil nalla sūlal irukka ungalaalum udhava mudiyum. matravargalai patri thavaraaga pēsaamal iruppadhan mūlamum, illaadhadhaiyum pollaadhadhaiyum pēsaamal iruppadhan mūlamum sabaiyil mariyaadhaiyaana sūlal irukka ungalaal udhava mudiyum. (thīth. 2:3-5) naam ellaarumē mūppargalukku mariyaadhai kodukka vēndum. ēnendraal, kūttangalai nadatthuvadharkum... ūliyatthai olungamaippadharkum... “thavaraana paadhaiyil” adiyedutthu vaikkiravargalai paadhugaappadharkum... avargal kadinamaaga ulaikkiraargal. adhanaal, naam avargalukku mulu otthulaippu kodukkalaam. avargalukku nandriyōdu irukkalaam.—galaa. 6:1; 1 thī. 5:17.
14 oru mūppar koduttha aalōsanaiyai ētrukkolvadhu rōsiyō endra sagōdharikku kashtamaaga irundhadhu. “avar aalōsanai kodutthapōdhu, kadugaduppaaga pēsiyadhupōl irundhadhu. adhanaal vīttil avarai patri naan thappu thappaaga pēsinēn. avar koduttha aalōsanaiyaiyum naan ētrukkollavillai. unmaiyilēyē avarukku enmēl akkarai illai endru ninaitthēn. aanaal naan ippadi yōsippadhai veliyil kaattikkollavillai” engiraar rōsiyō. thannai maatrikkolla avarukku edhu udhaviyadhu? “naan baibilai vaasitthukkondu irundhapōdhu, 1 thesalōnikkēyar 5:12, 13-ai paditthēn. andha sagōdhararukku naan mariyaadhai kodukkaadhadhaal en manasaatchi urutthiyadhu. adhanaal, yegōvaavidam jebam pannivittu aaraaichi seidhēn. ennudaiya ennatthai maatrikkolla udhavum kurippugalai kandupiditthēn. piragudhaan purindhadhu, prachinai andha sagōdhararidam illai, ennidamdhaan endru. ennidam manatthaalmai illaiyendraal matravargalai ennaal mariyaadhaiyōdu nadattha mudiyaadhu enbadhai purindhukondēn. indha vishayatthil naan innum munnēra vēndum enbadhu unmaidhaan. irundhaalum, mariyaadhai kaattuvadharkaaga naan edukkira muyarchigalai paartthu yegōvaa nichayam sandhōshappaduvaar” endru solgiraar.
mūppargalukku otthulaippu koduppadhan mūlamum nandriyōdu iruppadhan mūlamum avargalukku mariyaadhai kodukkalaam (paaraakkal 13-14)
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15. satthiyatthil illaadhavargalukku mariyaadhai kaattuvadhu namakku ēn kashtamaaga irukkalaam?
15 ēn kashtam? ūliyatthil naam perumbaalum sandhikkira aatkal baibilaiyō, baibilil irukkira satthiyangalaiyō oru poruttaagavē ninaippadhillai. (ebē. 4:18) silar vēndumendrē appadi irukkalaam. adharku kaaranam, chinna vayadhil avargalukku katrukkodukkappatta vishayangalaaga irukkalaam. idhu namakku savaalaaga irukkalaam. nammōdu vēlai seigiravargalō kūdappadikkiravargalō nammidam kadugaduppaaga nadandhukollalaam. alladhu, naam enna seidhaalum thirupthiyē aagaadha mudhalaaliyō tīcharō namakku irukkalaam. avargal ippadiyellaam nadandhukolvadhaal pōgappōga avargalmēl namakku irukkira mariyaadhai kuraindhuvidalaam. kadaisiyil, naam avargalidam anbē illaamal nadandhukolla aarambikkalaam.
16. satthiyatthil illaadhavargalidam naam mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsuvadhu ēn mukkiyam? (1 pēdhuru 2:12; 3:15)
16 ēn kaatta vēndum? satthiyatthil illaadhavargalidam naam eppadi nadandhukolgirōm endru yegōvaa gavanikkiraar enbadhai naam marandhuvida kūdaadhu. nammudaiya nalla nadatthaiyai paartthu silar kadavulai ‘magimaippaduttha’ thūndappaduvaargal endru kristhavargalidam appōsthalan pēdhuru sonnaar. adhanaaldhaan, nam nambikkaigalai patri yaaraavadhu kēlvi kētkumpōdhu “saanthatthōdum aalndha mariyaadhaiyōdum” badhil solla vēndum endru sonnaar. (1 pēdhuru 2:12; 3:15-ai vaasiyungal.) nammudaiya nambikkaigalai patri visaaranai kūndil nindrukondu vilakkinaalum sari, pakkatthu vīttukkaararidam vilakkinaalum sari, naam mariyaadhaiyaagatthaan pēsa vēndum. andha idatthil yegōvaa irundhaal eppadi pēsuvōmō andha maadhiri pēsa vēndum. ēnendraal, naam enna solgirōm, eppadi solgirōm enbadhai yegōvaa paartthukkondē irukkiraar; adhai kūrndhu gavanikkiraar. appadiyendraal, naam matravargalidam endhalavukku mariyaadhaiyaaga pēsa vēndum!
17. satthiyatthil illaadhavargalukku naam eppadi mariyaadhai kaattalaam?
17 eppadi kaattuvadhu? baibilai patri avvalavaaga theriyaadha alladhu sutthamaaga theriyaadha aatkalai naam ūliyatthil paarkka vaaippirukkiradhu. avargalai naam thaalvaaga paarkka kūdaadhu. kadavulukku avargal mukkiyam enbadhai naam nyaabagam vaitthukkolla vēndum; avargalai uyarvaaga paarkka vēndum. (aagaa. 2:7; pili. 2:3) nammudaiya nambikkaigalukkaaga yaaraavadhu nammai kēli-kindal seidhaal alladhu avamaanappadutthinaal, badhilukku naam avargalai kindal seiyavō kaayappadutthugira maadhiri pēsavō kūdaadhu. (1 pē. 2:23) oruvēlai, nīngal andha maadhiri ēdhaavadhu pēsivittaal, udanē mannippu kēlungal. sari, vēlai seigira idatthil eppadi mariyaadhai kaattalaam? kadinamaaga ulaiyungal. kūdavēlai seigiravargalidamum mudhalaaliyidamum irukkira nalladhai paarungal. (thīth. 2:9, 10) nīngal nērmaiyaaga, surusuruppaaga, manadhaara ulaikkumpōdhu ellaa samayatthilum manidhargalai piriyappadutthugirīrgalō illaiyō, nichayam kadavulai piriyappadutthuvīrgal.—kolō. 3:22, 23.
18. mariyaadhai kodukka katrukkolvadhum adhai kaattuvadhum ēn romba mukkiyam?
18 mariyaadhai kaatta katrukkolvadhum, adhai kaattuvadhum evvalavu mukkiyam enbadhai ivvalavu nēram paartthōm. kudumbatthil irukkiravargalukku naam mariyaadhai kodukkumpōdhu, nammudaiya kudumba thalaivaraana yegōvaavai madhikkirōm. sagōdhara sagōdharigalukku mariyaadhai kodukkumpōdhum, nammudaiya paralōga appaavaana yegōvaavukku mariyaadhai kodukkirōm. satthiyatthil illaadhavargalukku mariyaadhai kodukkumpōdhu, nam magatthaana kadavul yegōvaavai avargal magimaippaduttha, adhaavadhu avarai madhikka, naam vaaippugalai uruvaakkugirōm. badhilukku silar namakku mariyaadhai kodukkavillai endraalum, mariyaadhai kodukka naam katrukkolvadhum, adhai kaattuvadhum nalladhu. ēnendraal, yegōvaa nammai aasīrvadhippaar. “ennai madhikkiravargalai naan madhippēn” endru avar vaakku kodutthirukkiraar!—1 saa. 2:30.
paattu 129 sagitthē ōduvōm!
a sila peyargal maatrappattullana.