Ko e faʻahinga ʻoku nau fanongo ki he ‘fefine valé’ ʻoku ʻi ai ha fili ke nau fai: Te nau tali ʻene fakaafé pe talitekeʻi ia? ʻOku ʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi ʻuhinga lelei ʻoku totonu ke tau fakaʻehiʻehi ai mei he tōʻonga fakaefehokotaki fakasino taʻetāú. Ko e ‘fefine valé’ ʻoku fakamatalaʻi ʻokú ne pehē: “ʻOku melie ʻa e vai ʻoku kaihaʻasi maí.” (Pal. 9:17) ʻOku ʻuhinga ki he hā ʻa e “vai ʻoku kaihaʻasi maí”? ʻOku fakatatau ʻe he Tohi Tapú ʻa e vā fakaefehokotaki fakasino ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo ha ongo meʻa mali ki he vai fakaivifoʻou. (Pal. 5:​15-18) Ko e husepānití mo e uaifí ʻe lava ke na maʻu ʻa e fiefia ʻi he ngaahi tōʻonga fakaefehokotaki fakasino totonu ʻi loto ʻi heʻena nofo mali fakalaó. Ka, he kehe ē ko e “vai ʻoku kaihaʻasi maí.” ʻOku lava ke ʻuhinga ia ki he fehokotaki fakasino taʻetaau taʻefakalaó. ʻOku faʻa fai fakafufū ia, ʻo hangē pē ko ha tokotaha kaihaʻa ʻokú ne faʻa kaihaʻa fakafufū. Ko e “vai ʻoku kaihaʻasi maí” ʻoku hā ngali melie nai kapau ko e faʻahinga ʻoku nau fakahoko iá ʻoku nau ongoʻi ʻe ʻikai ʻiloʻi ʻa honau ʻalunga angahalaʻiá. He fakaloloma ē ko ia! ʻOku ʻafioʻi ʻe Sihova ʻa e meʻa kotoa. ʻOku halaʻatā ha meʻa ʻe lava ke kona ange ʻi he mole ʻa ʻene hōifuá, ko ia ʻoku halaʻatā ha “melie” ʻe taha ʻo e mole fakamamahi ko iá.—1 Kol. 6:​9, 10. w23.06 22 ¶7-9

Kae fēfē kapau ʻokú ke ongoʻi ʻi ha taimi ko hoʻo ngaahi lotú kuo fai fakafatongia pē pe ko hoʻo ngāue fakafaifekaú ʻoku ʻikai longomoʻui? ʻOua ʻe fakamulituku ʻo pehē kuo mole ʻa e laumālie ʻo Sihová meiate koe. Ko ha tangata taʻehaohaoa koe, pea ko hoʻo ngaahi ongoʻí ʻe lava ke feliuliuaki. Kapau ʻoku kamata ke hōloa hoʻo faivelengá, fakakaukauloto ki he faʻifaʻitakiʻanga ʻa e ʻapositolo ko Paulá. Neongo naʻá ne feinga ke faʻifaʻitaki kia Sīsū, naʻá ne ʻiloʻi ʻi he taimi ʻe niʻihi heʻikai nai ke ne ongoʻi ʻokú ne maʻu ʻa e fakaueʻilotó ʻo hangē ko e ngaahi taimi kehé. Naʻe fakapapauʻi ʻe Paula ke fakahoko ʻene ngāue fakafaifekaú neongo ʻa e anga ʻene ongoʻi nai ʻi he taimi ko iá. ʻI he tuʻunga meimei tatau, ʻoua ʻe fakaʻatā hoʻo ngaahi ongoʻi taʻehaohaoá ke ne fai ʻa e filí maʻau. Fakapapauʻi te ke fai ʻa e meʻa totonú neongo ʻa e anga hoʻo ongoʻí. Ko hoʻo ngaahi tōʻongá ʻoku totonu ke faai atu pē ʻo ne tākiekina hoʻo ngaahi ongoʻí ke lelei ange.—1 Kol. 9:16. w24.03 11-12 ¶12-13

ʻE lava ke tau fakahāhā ʻa e ʻofá ki hotau fanga tokouá mo e fanga tuofāfiné ʻaki hono talitali lelei kinautolu ko hotau ngaahi kaumeʻa. (2 Kol. 6:​11-13) Ko e tokolahi ʻo kitautolu ʻoku tau kau ki he ngaahi fakatahaʻanga ʻoku faʻuʻaki ʻa e fanga tokoua mo e fanga tuofāfine mei he puipuituʻa kehekehe pea ʻoku nau maʻu ʻa e angaʻitangata kehekehe. ʻE lava ke tau fakaivimālohiʻi ʻetau ʻofa kiate kinautolu kotoá ʻaki ʻa e tokangataha ki honau ngaahi ʻulungaanga leleí. ʻI heʻetau ako ke vakai ki he niʻihi kehé ʻo hangē ko e vakai ʻa Sihová, ʻoku tau fakamoʻoniʻi ai ʻoku tau ʻofa ʻiate kinautolu. Ko e ʻofá ʻe mātuʻaki mahuʻinga ʻi he lolotonga ʻa e fuʻu mamahi lahí. ʻI he kamata ʻa e fuʻu mamahi lahi ko iá, te tau maʻu ʻi fē ʻa e maluʻangá? Fakakaukau ki he meʻa naʻe fakahinohino ʻe Sihova ki heʻene kakaí ke nau fai ʻi he taimi naʻe ʻohofi ai ʻa Pāpilone ʻo e kuonga muʻá: “ʻAlu, ʻa hoku kakai, hū ki ho ngaahi loki ʻi lotó, pea tāpuni ho ngaahi matapaá. Toi ʻi ha kiʻi mōmeniti kae ʻoua ke mavahe atu ʻa e houhaú.” (ʻAi. 26:20) ʻOku hā ngali ko e ngaahi lea ko iá ʻoku toe kaunga kiate kitautolu ʻa ia te tau fehangahangai mo e fuʻu mamahi lahí. w23.07 6-7 ¶14-16