Ncinzi Bbaibbele Ncolyaamba Kujatikizya Kutakwata Akutakwatwa Alimwi Acikwati?

Mumasena amwi, bantu bayeeya kuti muntu takonzyi kukkomana ccita buyo kuti wakwata naa kukwatwa. Nokuba boobo, tabali boonse bali mucikwati bakkomene alimwi tabali boonse ibatakwete naa kukwatwa ibatakkomene. Masimpe ngakuti Bbaibbele lyaamba kutakwata naa kutakwatwa alimwi acikwati kuti nzipego.

1. Mbubotu nzi bujanika akaambo kakutakwata naa kutakwatwa?

Ibbaibbele lyaamba kuti: “Kufwumbwa uukwata ucita kabotu, pele kufwumbwa uutakwati ucita kabotu kwiinda.” (Amubale 1 Bakorinto 7:32, 33, 38.) Ino muunzila nzi muntu uutakwete naa kukwatwa ‘mwacita kabotu kwiinda’? Banakristo batakwete naa kukwatwa tabayandiki kulanganya nzyayandika ngobakwetene limwi. Aboobo balaangulukide kapati. Mucikozyanyo, ibamwi balakonzya kuyungizya mulimo wabo munzila zinji zikkomanisya, mbuli kuunka kucisi cimbi naa kubusena bumbi kuyookambauka makani mabotu. Kwiinda zyoonse, balakonzya kuba aciindi cinji cakuyumya cilongwe cabo a Jehova.

2. Mbubotu nzi bujanika mukuba mucikwati camumulawo?

Cikwati, mbubonya mbuli kutakwata alimwi akutakwatwa, cileta zilongezyo zilibedelede. Bbaibbele lyaamba kuti “bobilo bali kabotu kwiinda omwe.” (Mukambausi 4:9) Makani aaya ngamasimpe ikapati ku Banakristo bakasimpe ibatobela njiisyo zyamu Bbaibbele mucikwati cabo. Bantu ibakwatana mumulawo balasyomezyanya kuti banooyandana, kulemekana alimwi akubikkilana maano. Aboobo kanji-kanji balimvwa kukwabililwa kwiinda banabukwetene ibaile kukkala buyo antoomwe. Alimwi abana babo balimvwa kukwabililwa kapati.

3. Ino Jehova ucibona buti cikwati?

Ciindi Jehova naakatalisya cikwati cakusaanguna, wakaamba kuti: “Mwaalumi uyoosiya bausyi abanyina akukakatila kumukaintu wakwe.” (Matalikilo 2:24) Jehova uyanda kuti mulumi amukaintu kabayandana alimwi akukakatila kuli umwi amweenzinyina kufwumbwa buyo kuti kabacipona. Ulazumizya kulekana lilikke buyo ikuti naa umwi wacita bumambe. Mubukkale buli boobu, Jehova ulapa coolwe kuli yooyo uusyomeka cakusala naa ulayanda kuti balekane naa pe.a (Matayo 19:9) Jehova tazumizyi maali akati ka Banakristo.​—1 Timoteyo 3:2.

AMWIIYE ZINJI

4. Amucibelesye kabotu cipego cakutakwata naa kutakwatwa

Jesu wakali kubona kutakwata naa kutakwatwa kuti ncipego. (Matayo 19:11, 12) Amubale Matayo 4:23, akubandika mubuzyo ooyu:

• Mbuti Jesu mbwaakacibelesya cipego cakutakwata kutegwa abelekele Bausyi akugwasya bamwi?

Banakristo balakonzya kukkomana kubelesya cipego eeci mbubonya mbwaakacita Jesu. Atweebelele VIDIYO, akubandika mubuzyo uutobela.

VIDIYO: Bakwesu Abacizyi Batakwete Abatakwetwe Basyomeka (3:11)

• Ino muunzila nzi zigwasya Banakristo mobakonzya kucibelesya cipego cabo cakutakwata naa kutakwatwa?

Sena Mulizyi?

Bbaibbele talyaambi ciimo cini muntu nayelede kukwata naa kukwatwa. Nokuba boobo, likulwaizya muntu kulindila kusikila ‘wainda aciimo cakukubuka,’ iciindi luunyaunya lwabukubusi nolukonzya kunyonganya mukubusi kusala cabusongo.​—1 Bakorinto 7:36.

5. Amusale kabotu muntu wakukwatana limwi

Kusala muntu wakukwatana limwi ncimwi cazyakusala ziyandika kapati ncomweelede kucita. Amubale Matayo 19:4-6, 9, akubandika mubuzyo ooyu:

• Nkaambo nzi Munakristo ncateelede kufwambaana kunjila mucikwati?

Bbaibbele lilakonzya kumugwasya kuzyiba nzyomweelede kulanga kumuntu ngomuyanda kukwatana limwi. Kwiinda zyoonse, amuyandaule muntu uumuyanda kapati Jehova.b Amubale 1 Bakorinto 7:39 alimwi a 2 Bakorinto 6:14. Mpoonya mubandike mibuzyo iitobela:

• Nkaambo nzi ncotweelede kukwatana buyo a Munakristoma?

• Ino muyeeya kuti Jehova inga walimvwa buti ikuti twasala kukwatana amuntu uutamuyandi?

6. Cikwati amucibone mbwacibona Jehova

Mu Israyeli yansiku, bamaalumi bamwi bakali kuleka bamakaintu babo akaambo katwaambo tutayi koomoonga. Amubale Malaki 2:13, 14, 16, akubandika mubuzyo ooyu:

• Nkaambo nzi Jehova ncakusulide kulekana?

Atweebelele Vidiyo, akubandika mubuzyo uutobela.

VIDIYO: Cikwati​—Taceelede Kumana (4:30)

• Ikuti kamukwetene amuntu uutasyomi, ncinzi ncomukonzya kucita kutegwa cikwati canu cizwidilile?

7. Amutobele zyeelelo zya Jehova kujatikizya cikwati

VIDIYO: Mulakonzya Kusika Azyeelelo zya Jehova Izijatikizya Cikwati (4:14)

Amubale Bahebrayo 13:4, akubandika mibuzyo eeyi:

• Sena muyeeya kuti zyeelelo zya Jehova kujatikizya cikwati zilaminya? Nkaambo nzi?

Jehova uyanda kuti Banakristo kabalembya zikwati zyabo alimwi akucita oobo kuti naa balekana, mbwaanga mumasi manji makani aaya ayendelezyegwa amfwulumende. Amubale Tito 3:1, akubandika mubuzyo ooyu:

• Kuti naa mulikwete naa kukwatwa, sena muli masimpe kuti cikwati canu cakalembesyegwa mumulawo kumfwulumende?

MUBUFWAAFWI

Kutakwata naa kutakwatwa alimwi acikwati nzipego kuzwa kuli Jehova. Aabo ibali mubukkale boonse bobilo oobu, balakonzya kukkomana akukkutila ikuti kabapona kweelana akuyanda kwa Jehova.

Ncinzi Ncomwaiya?

• Mbuti muntu mbwakonzya kucibelesya kabotu cipego cakutakwata naa kutakwatwa?

• Nkaambo nzi Bbaibbele ncolyaamba kuti tweelede kukwatana buyo a Munakristoma?

• Nkaambo nzi kalikke kamu Magwalo ikazumizya kulekana?

AMUZYIBE ZINJI

Ino kukwata naa kukwatwa “buyo mu Mwami” caamba nzi?

“Mibuzyo Yabasikubala” (Ngazi Yamulindizi, July 1, 2004)

Amweebelele mavidiyo obilo aakonzya kumugwasya kusala kabotu muntu wakweebana limwi alimwi akukwatana limwi.

Kulibambila Cikwati (11:53)

Amubone cakapa mukwesu umwi kulimvwa kuti zintu nzyaamucitila Jehova zilainda kapati aali zyeezyo nzyaakasiya walo.

Ndakali Kulombozya Kuti Kubota Waiya Kasimpe (1:56)

Ino nzintu nzi muntu nzyayelede kulanga-langa katanasala kuti balekane naa kwaandaana amuntu ngobakwetene limwi?

“Amubulemeke Bubambe Bwa Leza Bwalukwatano” (Ngazi Yamulindizi, December 2018)