Wuli usange mukuwona kuti mukulomba mwa dango waka panji mukukondwa nayo yayi ntchito ya kupharazga? Lekani kughanaghana kuti Yehova waleka kumovwirani na mzimu wake. Ndimwe munthu wambura kufikapo, ndipo kaghanaghaniro kinu kangasintha nyengo na nyengo. Usange mwamphu winu wamba kuchepa, ghanaghanirani chiyelezgero cha mpositole Paulosi. Nangauli wakafwilirapo kumuyezga Yesu, kweni wakamanyanga kuti nyengo zinyake waŵavyenge khumbo likuru lakuchitira chinthu chinyake. Paulosi wakaŵikapo mtima kufiska uteŵeti wake, nangauli nyengo zinyake wakaŵavyanga khumbo lakuchita nthena. Mwakuyana waka, lekani kusankha waka vinthu kuyana na umo mukujipulikira. Ŵikanipo mtima kuchita icho ntchiwemi nanga vingaŵa kuti mukukhumba yayi kuchita chinthu icho. Para nyengo yajumphapo, kaghanaghaniro kinu nako kasinthenge usange mukulutilira kuyezgayezga kuchita icho ntchiwemi.—1 Kor. 9:16. w24.03 11-12 ¶12-13

Tingalongora chitemwa ku ŵabali na ŵadumbu ŵithu para tikuŵa nawo paubwezi na kuchezga nawo. (2 Kor. 6:​11-13) Taŵanandi ŵa ise tili mu mipingo iyo muli ŵabali na ŵadumbu ŵakufuma mu vigaŵa vyakupambanapambana kweniso ŵali na mikhaliro yakupambanapambana. Tingalutilira kuŵalongora chitemwa para tikuŵika mtima pa mikhaliro yawo yiwemi. Para tikuwona ŵanyithu nga umo Yehova wakuŵawonera, tikulongora kuti tikuŵatemwa. Chitemwa chizamukhumbikwira chomene pa suzgo yikuru. Para suzgo yikuru yazakayamba, ni nkhu uko tingazakasanga chivikiliro? Wonani ivyo Yehova wakaphalira ŵanthu ŵake kuchita apo Babuloni wakawukirika. Wakaŵaphalira kuti: “Lutani ŵanthu ŵane, njirani mu vipinda vinu vyamukati, ndipo jalani vijaro pamanyuma pinu. Bisamani kwa kanyengo kachoko, m’paka ukali ujumphe.” (Yes. 26:20) Nyengo zinyake mazgu agha ghangazakagwiraso ntchito kwa ise apo tizamukumana na suzgo yikuru. w23.07 6-7 ¶14-16

Muŵe na lumbiri luwemi pakuŵa ŵamahara. Jifumbani kuti: ‘Kasi ŵanthu ŵakuniwona kuti nkhuchita vinthu mwamahara? Panji kasi ŵakuniwona kuti ndine munthu uyo wakukhwimiska vinthu? Kasi nkhutegherezga na kulondezga maghanoghano gha ŵanji para ntchakwenelera kuchita nthena?’ Ntheura para nyengo zose tikuchita vinthu mwamahara ndipo tingayezgaso chomene Yehova na Yesu. Kuŵa ŵamahara kukusazgapo kuŵa ŵakunozgeka kusintha para vinthu vyasintha pa umoyo withu. Para vinthu vyasintha tingasangana na masuzgo agho takhazganga yayi. Mwachiyelezgero, mwamabuchi tingalwara chomene, panji uko tikukhala chuma chinganjira pasi, kweniso pangaŵa masuzgo gha vya ndyali ndipo vingakhwaska chomene umoyo withu. (Muph. 9:11) Kweniso tingayezgeka para uteŵeti withu wasintha. Tingakwaniska kuzgoŵera umoyo withu wasono para tingalondezga vinthu vinayi ivi: (1) kuzomerezga para vinthu vyasintha, (2) kughanaghanira ivyo mungachita pasono m’malo mwa ivyo mukachitanga kale, (3) kughanaghanira vinthu viwemi vyose ivyo vyachitikapo pa umoyo winu, ndipo (4) kovwira ŵanji. w23.07 21-22 ¶7-8