kanavargalē, ungal manaivikku madhippu kodungal

1. kalyaana vaalkkai endra parisai yegōvaa thandhadharku oru kaaranam enna?

yegōvaa “sandhōshamulla kadavul.” naamum sandhōshamaaga irukka vēndum endru aasaippadugiraar. (1 thī. 1:11) adharkaaga yegōvaa namakku niraiya parisugalai kodutthirukkiraar. (yaak. 1:17) adhil ondrudhaan kalyaana vaalkkai. oru aanum pennum kalyaanam seiyumpōdhu, ‘kaalam muluvadhum oruvarmēl oruvar anbaaga iruppōm, mariyaadhai kaattuvōm, nenjaara nēsippōm’ endru vaakku kodukkiraargal. kanavanum manaiviyum oruvarmēl oruvar uyiraiyē vaitthirukkumpōdhu unmaiyilēyē sandhōshamaaga iruppaargal.—nīdhi. 5:18.

2. indru niraiya kanavargal avargaludaiya manaiviyai eppadi nadatthugiraargal?

² varutthamaana vishayam ennavendraal, kalyaana naalandru koduttha vaakkaiyē thambadhigal niraiya pēr marandhuvidugiraargal. adhanaal avargaludaiya vaalkkai sandhōshamaaga iruppadhillai. sila varushangalukku munbu ulaga sugaadhaara amaippu veliyitta oru arikkaiyil, niraiya kanavargal avargaludaiya manaiviyai aditthu kodumaippadutthugiraargal, mōsamaaga pēsugiraargal, manadhai kaayappadutthugiraargal endru solliyirundhadhu. ippadi seiyum kanavargal, perumbaalum matravargal munnaal manaiviyai mariyaadhaiyaagatthaan nadatthuvaargal. aanaal vīttil adharku nērmaaraaga iruppaargal. innum sila kanavargal aabaasatthai paarppadhaal avargaludaiya kalyaana vaalkkaiyē naasamaagiyirukkiradhu.

3. edhanaal sila kanavargal manaiviyai mōsamaaga nadatthugiraargal?

³ edhanaal sila kanavargal avargaludaiya manaiviyai mōsamaaga nadatthugiraargal? oruvēlai, avargaludaiya appaa avargaludaiya ammaavai kodūramaaga nadatthiyiruppaar. adhai paartthu valarndha sila aangal, manaiviyai mōsamaaga nadatthuvadhu thappillai endru ninaikkiraargal. innum silapēr, ‘manaiviyai adakka therindhavandhaan unmaiyaana aambala’ endru nambugira kalaachaaratthil valarndhadhaal appadi nadakkiraargal. vērusila aangal, kōbatthai kattuppadutthuvadhu endraal ennavendrē theriyaamal valarndhirukkalaam. sila aangalukku, adikkadi aabaasatthai paarkkum palakkam iruppadhaal, seks aasaigalai thīrkkum porulaaga mattumdhaan pengalai paarkkiraargal. kōvid perunthotrukku piragu, kanavargal manaiviyai mōsamaaga nadatthuvadhu innum adhigamaagi irukkiradhu endru arikkaigal kaattugindrana. ippadi niraiya kaaranangal irukkalaam. adharkaaga kanavargal seivadhu ellaam sariyendru aagividaadhu.

4. kristhava kanavargal endha vishayatthil jaakkiradhaiyaaga irukka vēndum, ēn?

⁴ pengalai patri indha ulagatthil irukkira thavaraana karutthai yegōvaavai vanangugira aangal valartthukkolla kūdaadhu; adhil romba jaakkiradhaiyaaga irukka vēndum.a ēnendraal oruvar manadhil edhai yōsikkiraarō adhaitthaan seivaar. rōmil irundha abishēgam seiyappatta kristhavargalukku, “indha ulagatthin baaniyai pinpatruvadhai nirutthungal” endru appōsthalan pavul echarippu kodutthaar. (rō. 12:1, 2) rōmargalukku pavul idhai eludhiyapōdhu, andha sabai aarambitthu pala varushangal aagiyirundhadhu. aanaal appōdhum, ulagatthil irundhavargaludaiya sila palakkavalakkangalum karutthugalum andha sabaiyil silaridam irundhirukkiradhu. idhu pavulin vaartthaigalilirundhu therigiradhu. adhanaaldhaan, yōsikkira vidhatthaiyum nadandhukolgira vidhatthaiyum maatrikkollumpadi pavul avargalukku aalōsanai kodutthaar. andru pavul avargalukku koduttha aalōsanai indru irukkira kristhava kanavargalukkum porundhum. ēnendraal, sila kristhava kanavargaludaiya manadhil ulagatthin karutthugal iruppadhaal manaiviyai mōsamaaga nadatthugiraargal. idhu romba varutthamaana vishayam.b kanavargal manaiviyai eppadi nadattha vēndum endru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar? adharkaana badhilai indha katturaiyin mukkiya vasanatthilirundhu therindhukollalaam.

5. 1 pēdhuru 3:7 solvadhupōl oru kanavar avarudaiya manaiviyai eppadi nadattha vēndum?

⁵ 1 pēdhuru 3:7-ai vaasiyungal. kanavargal manaivikku madhippu kodukka vēndum endru yegōvaa kattalai kodutthirukkiraar. podhuvaaga, naam mariyaadhai vaitthirukkira oruvarai madhippōdu nadatthuvōm. appadiyendraal, manaivikku madhippu kodukkira kanavar avalidam anbaaga, paasamaaga nadandhukolvaar. indha katturaiyil, kanavargal eppadi manaiviyai madhippōdu nadattha vēndum endru therindhukolvōm. aanaal adharku munbu, manaiviyai eppadi nadattha kūdaadhu endru therindhukollalaam.

manaiviyai mariyaadhai illaamal nadatthaadhīrgal

6. manaiviyai aditthu kodumaippadutthum aangalai yegōvaa eppadi paarkkiraar? (kolōseyar 3:19)

⁶ manaiviyai aditthu kodumaippaduttha kūdaadhu. kodūramaaga nadandhukolgiravargalai yegōvaa verukkiraar. (sang. 11:5) adhuvum manaiviyai aditthu kodumaippadutthi, murattutthanamaaga nadatthugira kanavarai yegōvaavukku sutthamaaga pidikkaadhu. (mal. 2:16; kolōseyar 3:19-aiyum adikkurippaiyum vaasiyungal.) indha katturaiyin mukkiya vasanam 1 pēdhuru 3:7 solvadhupōl, oru kanavar manaiviyai sariyaaga nadatthavillai endraal yegōvaavōdu avarukku irukkum natpu baadhikkappadum. sollappōnaal, avar seigira jebatthaikkūda yegōvaa kētka maattaar.

7. ebēsiyar 4:31, 32 solvadhupōl eppadippatta pēchai kanavargal thavirkka vēndum? (“vaartthaiyin vilakkam” enbadhaiyum paarungal.)

⁷ mōsamaana vaartthaigalaal manaiviyai kaayappaduttha kūdaadhu. sila kanavargal, manaiviyidam kōbamaaga pēsugiraargal, manadhai kutthi kilikkum mōsamaana vaartthaigalai payanpadutthugiraargal. aanaal yegōvaa, “sinatthaiyum, kadum kōbatthaiyum, kūchalaiyum, palippēchaiyum”c verukkiraar. (ebēsiyar 4:31, 32-ai vaasiyungal.) yegōvaa ellaavatraiyum kēttukkondudhaan irukkiraar. vīttil thaniyaaga irukkumpōdhu oru kanavar avarudaiya manaiviyidam eppadi pēsugiraar enbadhaiyum yegōvaa gavanikkiraar. eppōdhum manaiviyidam kadugaduppaaga pēsugira oru kanavar avarudaiya kalyaana vaalkkaiyai mattumalla, yegōvaavōdu avarukku irukkum natpaiyum kedutthukkolgiraar.—yaak. 1:26.

8. aabaasatthai patri yegōvaa enna ninaikkiraar, ēn?

⁸ aabaasatthai paarkka kūdaadhu. aabaasatthai yegōvaa verukkiraar. adhu avarukku aruvaruppaaga irukkiradhu. adhanaal, asingamaana padangalai paarkkira oru kanavar yegōvaavōdu avarukku irukkum natpaiyum kedutthukkolgiraar; avarudaiya manaiviyaiyum kēvalappadutthugiraar.d kanavar, than manaivikku unmaiyaaga irukka vēndum endru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar. manaivikku unmaiyaaga irukkira oru kanavar, vēru pennōdu thappaana uravu vaitthukkolla maattaar; adhai patri yōsitthukkūda paarkka maattaar. oru pennai kaama unarvōdu paartthukkondē irukkum oruvar avalōdu ērkenavē than “idhayatthil” muraikēdaana uravukonduvidugiraar endru yēsu sonnaar.e—mat. 5:28, 29.

9. manaivikku pidikkaadha vidhatthil seks vaitthukkolla kanavargal kattaayappadutthuvadhai yegōvaa ēn verukkiraar?

⁹ manaivikku aruvaruppaaga irukkira vidhatthil seks vaitthukkolla kattaayappaduttha kūdaadhu. manaivikku pidikkaadha vidhangalilō avalukku aruvaruppaaga alladhu avaludaiya manasaatchikku urutthalaaga irukkira vidhangalilō seks vaitthukkolla sila kanavargal kattaayappadutthugiraargal. ippadi suyanalamaaga, manaivimēl konjamkūda anbu illaamal nadandhukolvadhu yegōvaavukku sutthamaaga pidikkaadhu. ēnendraal, kanavargal manaivimēl anbu kaatta vēndum, avalai nenjaara nēsikka vēndum, avaludaiya unarchigalukku madhippu kodukka vēndum endru yegōvaa edhirpaarkkiraar. (ebē. 5:28, 29) appadiyendraal, oru kristhava kanavar manaivikku pidikkaadha vidhatthil seks vaitthukkolbavaraagavō aabaasatthai paarppavaraagavō kodūramaaga nadandhukolbavaraagavō irundhaal enna seivadhu? avarudaiya yōsanaigalaiyum nadatthaiyaiyum avar eppadi maatrikkollalaam?

mōsamaana indha palakkangalai kanavargal eppadi vidalaam?

10. yēsuvin munmaadhiri kanavargalukku eppadi prayōjanamaaga irukkum?

¹⁰ manaiviyai ippadi mōsamaaga nadatthaamal irukka kanavargal enna seiya vēndum? yēsuvaippōl nadandhukolla vēndum. yēsu kalyaanam seidhukollavillaidhaan. aanaal, avar thannudaiya sīshargalai nadatthiya vidhatthilirundhu manaiviyai eppadi nadattha vēndum endru kanavargal therindhukollalaam. (ebē. 5:25) yēsu avarudaiya sīshargalai eppadi nadatthinaar, avargalidam eppadi pēsinaar, adhilirundhu kanavargal enna katrukkollalaam endru ippōdhu paarkkalaam.

11. yēsu avarudaiya appōsthalargalai eppadi nadatthinaar?

¹¹ yēsu avarudaiya appōsthalargalai eppōdhum paasamaaga mariyaadhaiyaaga nadatthinaar. avargalai orupōdhum kodumaippadutthiyadhum illai, tharakkuraivaaga nadatthiyadhum illai. yēsu, avargaludaiya ejamaanaagavum pōdhagaraagavum irundhaar. adharkaaga avarudaiya adhigaaratthaiyum balatthaiyum kaatti avargalai adakki odukkavillai. adharku badhilaaga manatthaalmaiyaaga avargalukku sēvai seidhaar. (yōvaa. 13:12-17) yēsu avarudaiya sīshargalidam, “naan saanthamum manatthaalmaiyumaaga irukkirēn; . . . ennidamirundhu katrukkollungal; appōdhu, ungalukku putthunarchi kidaikkum” endru sonnaar. (mat. 11:28-30) yēsu saanthamaaga irundhaar. saantham, kōlaitthanam kidaiyaadhu. adhu balatthukku adaiyaalam. ēnendraal, saanthamaaga irukkiravaraaldhaan, yaaraavadhu kōbappadutthinaalkūda unarchigalai kattuppadutthikkondu amaidhiyaaga irukka mudiyum.

12. yēsu matravargalidam eppadi pēsinaar?

¹² yēsu pēsiya vaartthaigal aarudhalaaga irundhadhu, putthunarchi kodutthadhu. avarai pinpatriyavargalidam avar kadugaduppaaga pēsiyadhē illai. (lū. 8:47, 48) edhirigal avarai avamaanappadutthi avarudaiya kōbatthai thūndivida paartthapōdhukūda avar kōbappadavillai, avargalai “badhilukku avamaanappadutthavillai.” (1 pē. 2:21-23) sila samayangalil, yēsu edhuvum pēsaamal amaidhiyaaga irundhaar. (mat. 27:12-14) kristhava kanavargalukku yēsu evvalavu nalla munmaadhiri!

13. matthēyu 19:4-6 solvadhupōl, oru kanavar eppadi avarudaiya manaiviyōdu ‘sērndhirukka’ vēndum? (padatthaiyum paarungal.)

¹³ kanavar than manaivikku unmaiyaaga irukka vēndum endru yēsu sonnaar. oru kanavar than manaiviyōdu “sērndhiruppaan” endru avarudaiya appaa sonna vaartthaigalaiyē marubadiyum sonnaar. (matthēyu 19:4-6-ai vaasiyungal.) “sērndhiruppaan” endra vaartthaikkaana grēkka vaartthaiyin nēradi arttham, “pasaipōttu ottuvadhu.” appadiyendraal, oru kanavan-manaivikkul irukkira thirumana bandham, irandu pēraiyum pirikkavē mudiyaadhapadi pasaipōttu otti vaittha maadhiri irukka vēndum. andha bandhatthai kedukkira maadhiri iruvaril oruvar ēdhaavadhu seidhaalkūda irandu pērukkumē validhaan. ippadi manaiviyōdu ‘sērndhirukkira’ kanavar aabaasatthai endha vidhatthilum paarkka maattaar. “vīnaana kaariyangalai paarkkaadhapadi” udanē avarudaiya ‘kannai thiruppividuvaar.’ (sang. 119:37) sollappōnaal, ‘endha pennaiyum ketta ennatthōdu paarkka maattēn’ endru thannudaiya kangalōdu oppandham seidhiruppaar.—yōbu 31:1.

14. manaiviyōdum yegōvaavōdum irukkum bandhatthai sariseiya oru kanavar ennavellaam seiya vēndum?

¹⁴ sollaalō seyalaalō manaiviyai kaayappadutthikkondu irukkira oru kanavar, yegōvaavōdum thannudaiya manaiviyōdum avarukku irukkum bandhatthai sariseidhukolla vēndum. adharku avar ennavellaam seiya vēndum? mudhalil, avar seivadhu thavaru endru purindhukolla vēndum. avar seigira ellaavatraiyum yegōvaa paartthukkondu irukkiraar; yegōvaavidamirundhu edhaiyum maraikka mudiyaadhu. (sang. 44:21; pra. 12:14; ebi. 4:13) irandaavadhaaga, manaiviyai kodumaippadutthuvadhai niruttha vēndum. avar nadandhukolgira vidhatthai maatrikkolla vēndum. (nīdhi. 28:13) mūndraavadhaaga, than manaiviyaiyum yegōvaavaiyum vēdhanaippadutthiyadharkaaga avargalidam manasaara mannippu kētka vēndum. (ap. 3:19) ‘ennai maatrikkolvadharku aasaiyai kodungal. naan yōsikkira vidhatthai, en pēchai, naan nadandhukolgira vidhatthai kattuppaduttha udhavungal’ endru yegōvaavidam kenji kētka vēndum. (sang. 51:10-12; 2 ko. 10:5; pili. 2:13) naangaavadhaaga, seidha jebatthukku ētra maadhiri nadakka vēndum. mōsamaaga nadappadhaiyum mōsamaaga pēsuvadhaiyum viduvadharku ennavellaam seiya mudiyumō adhaiyellaam seiya vēndum. (sang. 97:10) aindhaavadhaaga, sabaiyil irukkira anbaana mūppargalidam udanē udhavi kētka vēndum. (yaak. 5:14-16) aaraavadhaaga, thirumbavum indha maadhiri nadakkaamal irukka enna seiya vēndum, enna seiya kūdaadhu endru oru thittam pōda vēndum. aabaasatthai paarkkira kanavarum idhē vishayangalai seiya vēndum. kanavargal thangalai maatrikkolla edukkira ellaa muyarchigalaiyum yegōvaa kandippaaga aasīrvadhippaar. (sang. 37:5) mōsamaana indha palakkangalai kanavargal vittaal mattum pōdhaadhu, manaivikku madhippu kodukkavum katrukkolla vēndum. eppadi?

ungal manaivikku eppadi madhippu kodukkalaam?

15. oru kanavar eppadi manaivimēl paasam kaattalaam?

¹⁵ paasatthai kaattungal. kalyaana vaalkkaiyil sandhōshamaaga irukkira sila sagōdharargalukku oru nalla palakkam irukkiradhu. avargaludaiya manaiviyai avargalukku evvalavu pidikkum enbadhai kaatta dhinamum ēdhaavadhu seigiraargal. (1 yō. 3:18) chinna chinna vishayangalai seidhukūda oru kanavar paasatthai kaattalaam. paasamaaga manaiviyin kaiyai pidikkalaam, katti pidikkalaam. oru mesēj anuppi, “naan unnai mis pannurēn” endru sollalaam, “nī saappittiyaa” endru kētkalaam. avvappōdhu, manaivikku pidittha porulgalaiyō pūvaiyō vaangi kodutthu avalmēl irukkum paasatthai kaattalaam. oru kanavar idhaiyellaam seiyumpōdhu manaivikku madhippu kodukka mudiyum, thirumana bandhamum balamaagum.

16. kanavargal ēn manaiviyai paaraatta vēndum?

¹⁶ manadhaara paaraattungal. manaiviyai madhikkira oru kanavar, ‘nī enakku romba mukkiyam’ enbadhai manaiviyidam velippadaiyaaga solvaar, avalai urchaagappadutthuvaar. manaivi thanakkaaga ennavellaam seidhirukkiraal endru gavanitthu, ondruvidaamal ellaavatraiyum paaraattuvaar. (kolō. 3:15) kanavar manadhaara paaraattumpōdhu manaiviyin manam kulirndhuvidum. anbum madhippum kidaippadhai manaivi unarvaal, paadhugaappaagavum unarvaal.—nīdhi. 31:28.

17. oru kanavar than manaiviyai eppadi mariyaadhaiyaaga nadatthalaam?

¹⁷ menmaiyaaga mariyaadhaiyaaga nadatthungal. manaivimēl uyiraiyē vaitthirukkira oru kanavar avalai mukkiyamaanavalaaga ninaippaar, nenjaara nēsippaar. avalai yegōvaa koduttha pokkishamaaga paarppaar. (nīdhi. 18:22; 31:10) adhanaal, eppōdhum avalai menmaiyaaga mariyaadhaiyaaga nadatthuvaar. seks vaitthukkollumpōdhukūda manaiviyai sangadappadutthugira maadhiri, avaludaiya manasaatchi urutthugira maadhiri, avalukku aruvaruppaaga irukkira vidhatthil seks vaitthukkolla kattaayappaduttha maattaar.f indha vishayatthil, kanavarudaiya manasaatchiyum yegōvaavukku munnaal sutthamaaga irukka vēndum.—ap. 24:16.

18. kanavargalē, nīngal enna seiya urudhiyaaga irukkirīrgal? (“manaiviyai madhikkira kanavaraaga irukka naangu valigal” endra pettiyaiyum paarungal.)

¹⁸ kanavargalē, ellaa samayatthilum manaivikku madhippu kodukka nīngal edukkira muyarchigalai yegōvaa paarkkiraar. ungalai ninaitthu romba perumaippadugiraar. manaiviyai mariyaadhai illaamal nadattha kūdaadhu enbadhil urudhiyaaga irungal. eppōdhum manaiviyai paasamaaga, menmaiyaaga, mariyaadhaiyaaga nadatthungal. appadi seiyumpōdhu, nīngal avalmēl uyiraiyē vaitthirukkirīrgal, aval ungalukku romba mukkiyam enbadhai kaattuvīrgal. manaivikku madhippu kodungal; yegōvaavōdu irukkira bandhatthukku prachinai varaamal paartthukkollungal. ēnendraal, yegōvaavōdu irukkum natpudhaan vaalkkaiyilēyē romba mukkiyam.—sang. 25:14.