yegōvaavin saatchigal dētting seivadharkendru sattam vaitthirukkiraargalaa?
baibilil irukkira aalōsanaigalum sattangalum kadavulukku pidittha maadhiri thīrmaanam edukka udhavugiradhu, adhu engalukku prayōjanamaagavum irukkiradhu endru yegōvaavin saatchigalaagiya naangal nambugirōm. (ēsaayaa 48:17, 18) indha aalōsanaigalaiyum vidhimuraigalaiyum naangal uruvaakkavillai, aanaal adhanpadi vaalgirōm. ivatril sila, dētting seiyum vishayatthil eppadi udhavugindrana endru paarkkalaam.a
kalyaanam enbadhu kaalaagaalatthukkum kattikkaakkappada vēndiya oru bandham. (matthēyu 19:6) kalyaanam seiya vēndum endru ninaikkiravargal mattumdhaan dētting panna vēndum enbadhu engal karutthu. adhanaal, naangal dēttingai vilaiyaattaaga edutthukkolvadhillai.
kalyaana vayadhai ettiyavargal mattumdhaan dētting seiya vēndum. appadippattavargal “ilamai malarum paruvatthai,” adhaavadhu kaama aasaigal alavukku adhigamaaga irukkum paruvatthai, kadandhiruppaargal.—1 korindhiyar 7:36.
dētting seigiravargal sattappadi kalyaanam pannuvadharku thagudhi ullavargalaaga irukka vēndum. sattappadi vivaagaratthaana silarukku, kadavuludaiya paarvaiyil marumanam seiya thagudhi irukkaadhu. ēnendraal, paaliyal muraikēdu mattumdhaan vivaagaratthu seivadharku kadavul vaitthirukkum orē vēdhappūrva kaaranam.—matthēyu 19:9.
oru kristhavar, thannudaiya adhē madha nambikkaiyudaiya oruvaraitthaan kalyaanam pannikkolla vēndum endru yegōvaa kattalai kodutthirukkiraar. (1 korindhiyar 7:39) indha kattalaiyai yegōvaavin saatchigal eppadi purindhukolgiraargal? avargal kalyaanam seiya ninaikkum andha nabar verumanē avargaludaiya nambikkaigalai madhikkiravaraaga mattumalla, adhē nambikkai ullavaraagavum, adhanpadi vaalgiravaraagavum, nyaanasnaanam eduttha oru saatchiyaagavum irukka vēndum endru purindhuvaitthirukkiraargal. (2 korindhiyar 6:14) yegōvaavai vanangugira oruvaraitthaan kalyaanam pannikkolla vēndum endru aarambatthilirundhē avarudaiya vanakkatthaarukku yegōvaa solli varugiraar. (aadhiyaagamam 24:3; malkiyaa 2:11) indha kattalai nadaimuraikku otthu varugiradhu endru navīna kaala aaraaichiyaalargal kūda kandarindhirukkiraargal.b
pillaigal petrōrukku kīlppadiya vēndum. (nīdhimoligal 1:8; kolōseyar 3:20) appaa ammaavōdu orē vīttil vaalgira pillaigal dētting sambandhamaaga petrōr edukkira mudivugalukku kattuppada vēndum. endha vayadhil dētting seiya aarambikkalaam... dēttinginpōdhu enna pannalaam... enna panna kūdaadhu... ena appaa ammaa vaikkira kattuppaadugalukku avargal kīlppadiya vēndum.
baibil solgira aalōsanaigalai manadhil vaitthu, dētting seiya vēndumaa vēndaamaa... yaarai dētting seiya vēndum... endrellaam saatchigal sondhamaaga mudivu edukkiraargal. idhu baibilil ulla indha aalōsanaikku isaivaaga irukkiradhu: “ovvoruvanum avanavan poruppu endra baaratthai sumappaan.“ (galaatthiyar 6:5, adikkurippu) irundhaalum dētting vishayatthil, niraiya pēr thangalmēl unmaiyilēyē akkarai vaitthirukkira mudhirchiyulla saatchigaludaiya arivuraigalai kēttu nadakkiraargal. —nīdhimoligal 1:5.
dētting seiyumpōdhu niraiya pēr seigira pala seyalgal unmaiyilēyē padumōsamaana paavangalaaga irukkindrana. udhaaranatthukku, paaliyal muraikēttai thavirkka vēndum endru baibil kattalai kodukkiradhu. kalyaanamaagaadha irandu pēr udaluravu vaitthukkolvadhu mattumalla, innoruvarudaiya paaliyal uruppugalai thadavuvadhu, kilarchi adaiya seivadhu, vaaivali seks, aasanavali seks pōndra asutthamaana palakkangalum paaliyal muraikēttil adangum. (1 korindhiyar 6:9-11) kalyaanatthukku munbu paaliyal muraikēttil īdupadavillai endraalum paaliyal unarchigalai thūndugira maadhiri nadandhukolvadhukūda kadavulukku pidikkaadha “asutthamaana nadatthai.” (galaatthiyar 5:19-21) olukkanketta vishayangalai pēsuvadhai baibil kandanam seigiradhu, adhil ‘aabaasamaana pēchum’ adangum.—kolōseyar 3:8.
manushanudaiya idhayam nayavanjagamaanadhu. (erēmiyaa 17:9) indha idhayam, thavaru endru therigira vishayangalai kūda seiya oruvarai thūndum. dētting seigira thambadhigal thangaludaiya idhayatthai nambi ēmaandhupōga kūdaadhu. thappu seiya thūndugira sūlnilaimaiyil thaniyaaga iruppadhai thavirkka vēndum. adharkaaga avargal sila munnecharikkai nadavadikkaigalai edukka vēndum. nanbargal sērndhirukkumpōdhō... pakkuvamaana oruvar thangaludan irukkumpōdhō... dētting seiya mudivedukkalaam. (nīdhimoligal 28:26) porutthamaana manatthunaiyai thēdikkondirukkum oru kristhavar aanlain dētting saittugalil irukkira aabatthugalai nandraaga purindhu vaitthirukkiraargal. ēnendraal munpin theriyaadha oru nabarōdu nerungi palaguvadhil aabatthugal irukkiradhu.—sangīdham 26:4.
a dētting seigira palakkam sila kalaachaarangalil irukkiradhu, sila kalaachaarangalil illai. aanaal, kandippaaga dētting seiya vēndum endrō, dētting seidhudhaan kalyaanam pannikkolla vēndum endrō baibil solvadhu kidaiyaadhu.
b “thirumanamaagi romba varushangalaana (25-50+ varushangal) thambadhigalidam nadatthappatta mūndru virivaana aaivugalil, kalyaana vaalkkai romba kaalam nilaitthirukka thambadhigalukku orē madha kannōttam, orē madha nambikkai, orē madha visuvaasam irukka vēndum endru kandariyappattadhaaga” mērēj and fēmili rivyū endra patthirikaiyil vandha katturai solgiradhu.—thoguppu 38, idhal 1, pakkam 88 (2005).