Kuleza mtima kumatithandiza pocita zinthu na anthu ena. Kumatithandiza kumvetsela modekha ena akamalankhula. (Yak. 1:19) Kuleza mtima kumalimbikitsanso mtendele. Kumatiteteza kuti tisacite zinthu mopupuluma, na kukamba zinthu zosayenela tikapanikizika maganizo. Ndipo tikakhala oleza mtima, sitidzakwiya msanga wina akatikhumudwitsa. M’malo mobwezela, ‘tidzapitiliza kulolelana na kukhululukilana ndi mtima wonse.’ (Akol. 3:12, 13) Kuleza mtima kungatithandizenso kupanga zisankho zabwino. M’malo modya mfulumila, tidzapatula nthawi yofufuza na kusanthula zisankhozo kuti tione zimene zili zabwino koposa. Mwacitsanzo, tikamafuna-funa nchito, tingafulumile kuvomela nchito iliyonse imene yapezeka. Komabe, tikakhala oleza mtima, tidzakhala pansi na kuganizila mmene idzakhudzila banja lathu na umoyo wathu wauzimu. Tikakhala oleza mtima, tidzapewa kupanga zisankho zoipa. w23.08 22 ¶8-9

Ngati mungalefuke poona kuti mumakhala na zilakolako zoipa, kuganizila lonjezo limene munapeleka kwa Yehova podzipatulila kudzakuthandizani kutsimikiza mtima kugonjetsa mayeselo. Ndipo zoona zake n’zakuti lumbilo lanu la kudzipatulila lidzakuthandizani kugonjetsa mayeselo. Motani? Mukadzipatulila kwa Yehova mumadzikana nokha. Izi zikutanthauza kunena kuti toto ku zikhumbo zanu, na zolinga zanu zimene sizingakondweletse Yehova. (Mat. 16:24) Conco, mukakumana na mayeso simudzacedwa na kuganizilapo zimene muyenela kucita. Mudzakhala mutadziwilatu zocita, zomwe ni kukhalabe wokhulupilika kwa Yehova. Mudzakhalabe wosasunthika pa kukondweletsa Yehova. Mudzakhala ngati Yobu amene ngakhale pambuyo pokumana na mavuto aakulu ananena motsimikiza kuti: “Sindidzasiya kukhala wokhulupilika.”​—Yobu 27:5. w24.03 9 ¶6-7

Yehova, “Mulungu amene ndi wacikondi,” ali nafe! (2 Akor. 13:11) Iye amationetsa cidwi aliyense payekha-payekha. Ndife otsimikiza kuti ndife ‘otetezeka ndi cikondi Cake cokhulupilika.’ (Sal. 32:10) Tikapitiliza kusinkhasinkha za mmene iye waonetsela cikondi cake pa ife, m’pamene iyenso amakhala weniweni kwa ife. Ndipo timamva kuti tikuyandikana naye. Tingamufikile momasuka na kumuuza kufunika kwa cikondi cake kwa ife. Tingamufotokozele nkhawa zathu zonse tili na cidalilo kuti amatimvetsa, komanso kuti ni wofunitsitsa kutithandiza. (Sal. 145:19) Monga mmene timafunila moto kukazizila, tifunikilanso cikondi ca Yehova. Ngakhale kuti cikondi ca Yehova n’camphamvu, cimapelekedwa mokoma mtima. Conco muzikhala wosangalala podziŵa kuti Yehova amakukondani kwambili. Ndipo tonsefe tiyeni tinene mofuula za cikondi cake kuti: “Ndimakonda Yehova”!​—Sal. 116:1. w24.01 31 ¶19-20