UNGAMELANA NJANI NOKUNYUKA KWAMAXABISO?
Yaneliseka Zizinto Onazo
Abantu abanelisekileyo baye bavuyiswe bubomi babo. Njengoko iimeko zabo zitshintsha baye bayitshintshe indlela abaphila ngayo ukuze bakwazi ukuphila ngemali abayifumanayo ngenyanga.
KUTHENI KUBALULEKILE UKWANELISEKA ZIZINTO ONAZO?
UGqirha wengqondo uJessica Koehler uye waphawula ukuba abantu abanelisekileyo badla ngokucinga ngendlela efanelekileyo. Uye wafumanisa nokuba abafane babamonele abanye abantu. Ayothusi ke into yokuba, abantu abanelisekileyo badla ngokuba ngabantu abonwabileyo nabangenastres kakhulu. Kangangokuba, abanye babona bantu bonwabe kakhulu ngabantu abangenazinto zininzi. Le nto yinyani, ingakumbi abo bahoye ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini ezingenakuthengwa ngamali, ezinjengovuyo olufumaneka xa uchitha ixesha nentsapho kunye nabahlobo.
INTO ONOKUYENZA
Kuphephe ukuzithelekisa nabanye abantu. Ukuba uthelekisa izinto ezimbalwa onazo nezinto ezininzi abanye abantu ababonakala benazo, unganganeliseki ude ube nawo nomona. Enye into, abo uzithelekisa nabo basenokungabi yile nto ocinga ukuba bayiyo. Usenokucinga ukuba abantu abanezinto ezininzi eziduru banemali eninzi, kanti abanye babo bathe gabhu ematyaleni. UNicole, ohlala eSenegal, uthi: “Andidingi izinto ezininzi ukuze ndonwabe. Ukuba ndanelisekile, ndinokonwaba nangona abanye benezinto ezininzi kunam.”
Khawuzame le nto: Kuphephe ukujonga iinkqubo zentengiso okanye izinto ezifakwe kwiiwebhsayithi zokuncokola ezibonisa imali abanayo abanye abantu okanye izinto zabo eziduru.
Yiba nombulelo. Abantu abanombulelo badla ngokwaneliseka yaye ngokuqhelekileyo abacingi ukuba badinga okanye bafanelwe kukuba nezinto ezininzi. URoberton waseHaiti uthi: “Ndiye ndiziphe ixesha ndicinge ngobubele abaye balubonisa abanye kum nakwintsapho yam. Emva koko, ndiye ndixelele abo bantu indlela endibabulela ngayo ngento abasenzele yona. Ndiye ndifundise nonyana wam oneminyaka eyi-8 ukuthi enkosi kwinto yonke ayifumanayo.”
Khawuzame le nto: Suku ngalunye bhala phantsi into onombulelo ngayo. Isenokuba yimpilo entle, intsapho esondeleneyo, abahlobo bokwenene okanye indlela elibalihle ngayo ilanga xa litshona.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kuye kubenzima kuthi sonke ukuba saneliseke zizinto esinazo. Kodwa xa sizama sifumana imiphumo emihle! Xa sikhetha ukwaneliseka, sikhetha nokonwaba ibe imali ayinakuyithenga loo nto.